nepatsfan01
Dormant Account
- Joined
- Feb 8, 2010
- Location
- USA
My thoughts are with you believe me... I have been there, done that. As recently as a few days ago! Last year I realized I was gambling a bit compulsively so I put a limit on the only casino that I didn't sign myself out of. It kept me in line for a year. Until one day this past weekend I went there and realized the limits were lifted (probably because I had taken a few months off because it was so hard to deposit anywhere!) It was like a year ago all over again. I put in $300 (which was all I had in spending money but I could afford that)... Thankfully I was one of the rare lucky ones that won.
But fast forward 12 hours later and I was depositing another $300 and then another $300 and then another $200 until I had actually broke even with what I won. I could have at any point live chatted with them to restrict my limits again but I didn't. Until it was all gone. So, yes, I'm back to where I started and I'm SO thankful for that. I put the limits back on and I'm good now. But I was lucky. VERY lucky. I could have bankrupted my account very easily and if I hadn't won I would have. I was on a mission. And it is like you're possessed when you're doing that - it is very scary.
But in the past, many years ago, I haven't been that lucky and lost everything, bill money, food money, the whole thing. I walked away from gambling for 5 years. I can appreciate that people are telling you to borrow money, that in a few months it'll be good, and you can pay off your debt gradually. But what you need is advice for right now. The immediate. I get that. Right now it seems like your whole world is gone.
My advice? It's what I did actually. I literally sold everything that I could touch. Not sure if Craigslist is big there? But that's what I did. Video games, movies, desks, tools, dressers, gaming systems, stereos, tv's, literally as much as I could until I made the money I needed for food and bills. It sucks. I was without some furniture for a long time. My husband didn't trust me. But I told him and even though he was angry beyond words he helped me and even sold some of his most prized possessions. But it gets you out of the hole you are in. I did $20 at a time. Seriously. It doesn't be worth a lot, doesn't have to be expensive. It just has to get you $10 or $20 at a time. It will add up. It will be a lot of work, but it will get you food.
Trust me, this will teach you one of the most valuable lessons you will ever learn. I wish you luck. All the other advice people have given you is great - print this out. Read it. Memorize it. And most of all - walk away from the online gambling. Good luck!!
But fast forward 12 hours later and I was depositing another $300 and then another $300 and then another $200 until I had actually broke even with what I won. I could have at any point live chatted with them to restrict my limits again but I didn't. Until it was all gone. So, yes, I'm back to where I started and I'm SO thankful for that. I put the limits back on and I'm good now. But I was lucky. VERY lucky. I could have bankrupted my account very easily and if I hadn't won I would have. I was on a mission. And it is like you're possessed when you're doing that - it is very scary.
But in the past, many years ago, I haven't been that lucky and lost everything, bill money, food money, the whole thing. I walked away from gambling for 5 years. I can appreciate that people are telling you to borrow money, that in a few months it'll be good, and you can pay off your debt gradually. But what you need is advice for right now. The immediate. I get that. Right now it seems like your whole world is gone.
My advice? It's what I did actually. I literally sold everything that I could touch. Not sure if Craigslist is big there? But that's what I did. Video games, movies, desks, tools, dressers, gaming systems, stereos, tv's, literally as much as I could until I made the money I needed for food and bills. It sucks. I was without some furniture for a long time. My husband didn't trust me. But I told him and even though he was angry beyond words he helped me and even sold some of his most prized possessions. But it gets you out of the hole you are in. I did $20 at a time. Seriously. It doesn't be worth a lot, doesn't have to be expensive. It just has to get you $10 or $20 at a time. It will add up. It will be a lot of work, but it will get you food.
Trust me, this will teach you one of the most valuable lessons you will ever learn. I wish you luck. All the other advice people have given you is great - print this out. Read it. Memorize it. And most of all - walk away from the online gambling. Good luck!!