Wow, there's lots of "heat" in this thread...
I was going to post earlier, but needed time to think through how I wanted to relate my thoughts (plus needed time to fix my typos ).
When reading the CM/OCR debachle, one of my first thoughts was...
YIKES! So much HATE.
People need to remember, we are ALL sensitive, feeling human beings. Words CAN be mightier than the sword, double edged and all. Once submitted and read by others, you can't take back the bite. When reading what other posters type, you can not hear the inflection in voice as you can in speaking in real time one on one. You can't see the body language behind the typed words.
When I read a post I think may be insulting, I go back and read it again with a different mindframe. Sometimes I can relate, others I come out with the same initial feelings. It's okay, we are all entitled to our opinions.
Bashing one another accomplishes little and requires too much negative energy. There are many on here I love to read, although I may not always agree. That's my right. There are some on here I avoid like the plague. That's my right too.
My posts may not always be clear (I've been accused of being mentally unstable sometimes in real life LOL cause I CHOOSE to work overnights dealing with people who at times are a completely different species of the human race). I try not to take things too personally, cause I don't really know you. BUT, I tend to take things at face value as constructive criticism. We can all learn from each other. If we were all the same what a boring world this would be...
So please, can we get back on track and start posting about things this forum was created for?
I was going to post earlier, but needed time to think through how I wanted to relate my thoughts (plus needed time to fix my typos ).
When reading the CM/OCR debachle, one of my first thoughts was...
YIKES! So much HATE.
People need to remember, we are ALL sensitive, feeling human beings. Words CAN be mightier than the sword, double edged and all. Once submitted and read by others, you can't take back the bite. When reading what other posters type, you can not hear the inflection in voice as you can in speaking in real time one on one. You can't see the body language behind the typed words.
When I read a post I think may be insulting, I go back and read it again with a different mindframe. Sometimes I can relate, others I come out with the same initial feelings. It's okay, we are all entitled to our opinions.
Bashing one another accomplishes little and requires too much negative energy. There are many on here I love to read, although I may not always agree. That's my right. There are some on here I avoid like the plague. That's my right too.
My posts may not always be clear (I've been accused of being mentally unstable sometimes in real life LOL cause I CHOOSE to work overnights dealing with people who at times are a completely different species of the human race). I try not to take things too personally, cause I don't really know you. BUT, I tend to take things at face value as constructive criticism. We can all learn from each other. If we were all the same what a boring world this would be...
So please, can we get back on track and start posting about things this forum was created for?