Personal attacks need to stop.

Funny you would mention that, I was just reading some of the old Pissed Off Club postings, nasty but good stuff!! FML



LMAO:lolup: Your own siggy below reflects your above post:rolleyes:

Nash was just speaking typical Nash speak.

This is so sad to see people act like this, i was looking at how long most of the posters have been on this forum and i wonder what a newbie would be thinking, reading some of these posts now:eek:

Those that have been here the longest should be leading by example the way one should act out on an open forum, instead of taking cheap shots at others, this is not cool and lacks of class and good manners.

Please dont bring the POC into this crap fest Nash, it has nothing to do with this thread or you for that matter:)

Laurie
 
LMAO:lolup: Your own siggy below reflects your above post:rolleyes:

Nash was just speaking typical Nash speak.

This is so sad to see people act like this, i was looking at how long most of the posters have been on this forum and i wonder what a newbie would be thinking, reading some of these posts now:eek:

Those that have been here the longest should be leading by example the way one should act out on an open forum, instead of taking cheap shots at others, this is not cool and lacks of class and good manners.

Please dont bring the POC into this crap fest Nash, it has nothing to do with this thread or you for that matter:)

Laurie
OK!!:rolleyes:
 
You know what I've decided?

I've decided that I'm not wanted by the main group here...

So you know what?

I guess I can take my ball and play somewhere else.

Period.

I don't need to be treated like I was yesterday - and make no small assumption - I think what happened was total crap.

And you guys know what you did - and if you don't then you'll keep doing it.

I'm just a number in the list that you keep clearing out - and in a list of people that you'll keep playing these games with.

I'll post when I feel like it - glean info off of what I want... But Society on the forum? Hell no.

Not right now... Not when this type of behavior is acceptable.

Sorry - I don't deserve it - and I highly have lost respect for those involved.

You're right - WE AREN'T FRIENDS - and you know what - I don't want to be friends with people who think it's ok to do what you did.

I want no part of a group of people who feel it is ok to talk to others like that - or to play those kinds of games.

So sit there and smirk - because I don't think you're worth my time trying to sort out my feelings over the last 2 days with those posts.

I don't need that...

I wear my heart on my sleeve - and I type everything I feel.

And right now I feel as though I'm unwanted - and I feel like the actions that were taken - the posts that were made were unacceptable.

I want no part in a place where people are not only permitted to act that way - but it is encouraged by the THANK you button.

I'll take part of posts when I want... But I don't know if I'm going to want to - because OBVIOIUSLY I add too much --- and OBVIOUSLY annoy some people.

But I've just realized - you guys can go on patting yourselves on the back - Cause I'm not gonna be the one to pat you on the back.

I'm going to avoid you like the plague...
 
OK - let me try to explain this.

Because it was all _ UNDER THE RADAR - and had a lot to do with TIMING and Placement.

You want to play games -fine - game on - but you are the ONLY player... I'm not playing.



I'm telling you - YOU HURT MY FEELINGS with the way you went about things.

I don't care if you don't like me - but you don't have to play those types of games with me as I do NOT deserve them.

All of those involved put on a "HOLIER THAN THOU" - attitude - and you guys know exactly what you are doing... Unless - of course - you really don't know and you think it is acceptable behavior.

I'm sorry - I'm NOT the only person who saw what transpired and took it the way I did.

The only problem is that your back is so far hackled - that you're BLAMING ME FOR ME saying MY feelings were hurt... As if it is MY problem.

When instead - the polite thing to do would have been to stop... take stock and instead of pointing out MY faults (ie posting long winded posts - must be crazy to see the "things" I felt in those postings, etc.) maybe try to figure out HOW I could have possibly come to the conclusion that you were indeed singling me out and stepping on my toes.

And instead of pointing out ME --- why didn't you just say - Oh - hey - sorry - didn't mean to upset you.

Oh... see... cause that's not what someone who ACTUALLY MEANT to do what was done does.

Nope - instead they get defensive and call the other person crazy or point out their faults... Cause hey...

If you see someone else's faults - there is NO WAY that other people could POSSIBLY see yours.

I see... some kind of strange reverse psychology...

Yeah - well - sorry - I still stand by the fact that I've been here long enough to have been POLITELY talked to...

AND you guys really have run people off - whether you like it or not....

WW....Again I'm going to say this, there was no conspiracy, nor was there any games, the only game you are playing is the one you've made up in your head. Poor WW........you've been picked on, boo hoo, (at least that is what you want everyone to believe isn't it??

I did apologize to you, but yet you went on and on in post after post. I didn't insult you, I tried to remain calm and clear and for the most part I have.

Now others are on your bandwagon thanks to the picture you've painted and I'm the big bad bitch. So you got your feelings hurt......well maybe I did too by some of the things you and others have said, but I'll suck it up and I'm not going to bellyache about it on and on.

LMAO:lolup: Your own siggy below reflects your above post:rolleyes:

Nash was just speaking typical Nash speak.

This is so sad to see people act like this, i was looking at how long most of the posters have been on this forum and i wonder what a newbie would be thinking, reading some of these posts now:eek:

Those that have been here the longest should be leading by example the way one should act out on an open forum, instead of taking cheap shots at others, this is not cool and lacks of class and good manners.

Laurie.......apparently you think I take cheap shots and I have a lack of class and good manners. :rolleyes: Thanks a lot for the compliment.

Please dont bring the POC into this crap fest Nash, it has nothing to do with this thread or you for that matter:)

Laurie

Just wanted to add something that you might want to think about WW. If you think that some of the people who are supporting you behind the scenes and egging you on don't have their own personal agenda going on, you should think again.
 
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Funny you would mention that, I was just reading some of the old Pissed Off Club postings, nasty but good stuff!! FML

Ah, I assume you could read some of those posts because of a malfunction at CM some months ago. Yeah, one could let off much steam in the good ole club without hurting others' feelings.
 
Damn........I forgot to consult with one of my cohorts before I posted and I used a cuss word. :eek::rolleyes:

Yes I'm being a sarcastic bitch now! :D
 
Bonita, i never said it was you, it wasnt in fact, that person has been banned for abusive words and others in the past who couldnt help but rip into other posters, its like they got a rush out of it, you do have class and manners but there are some that just dont.

Good lord, everyones got their panties all in a wad, posters gonna leave, people letting their emotions get the best of them, hell im taking a nerve pill and going to bed:eek: Im ready for this shit storm to end its ran its course and has done enough damage imho.


Laurie
 
Bonita, i never said it was you, it wasnt in fact, that person has been banned for abusive words.

Good lord, everyones got their panties all in a wad, posters gonna leave, people letting their emotions get the best of them, hell im taking a nerve pill and going to bed:eek: Im ready for this shit storm to end its ran its course and has done enough damage imho.


Laurie

OH........OK! :D Send me one of them there pills would you? ;)
 
You know what I've decided?

I've decided that I'm not wanted by the main group here...

So you know what?

I guess I can take my ball and play somewhere else.

Period.

I don't need to be treated like I was yesterday - and make no small assumption - I think what happened was total crap.

And you guys know what you did - and if you don't then you'll keep doing it.

I'm just a number in the list that you keep clearing out - and in a list of people that you'll keep playing these games with.

I'll post when I feel like it - glean info off of what I want... But Society on the forum? Hell no.

Not right now... Not when this type of behavior is acceptable.

Sorry - I don't deserve it - and I highly have lost respect for those involved.

You're right - WE AREN'T FRIENDS - and you know what - I don't want to be friends with people who think it's ok to do what you did.

I want no part of a group of people who feel it is ok to talk to others like that - or to play those kinds of games.

So sit there and smirk - because I don't think you're worth my time trying to sort out my feelings over the last 2 days with those posts.

I don't need that...

I wear my heart on my sleeve - and I type everything I feel.

And right now I feel as though I'm unwanted - and I feel like the actions that were taken - the posts that were made were unacceptable.

I want no part in a place where people are not only permitted to act that way - but it is encouraged by the THANK you button.

I'll take part of posts when I want... But I don't know if I'm going to want to - because OBVIOIUSLY I add too much --- and OBVIOUSLY annoy some people.

But I've just realized - you guys can go on patting yourselves on the back - Cause I'm not gonna be the one to pat you on the back.

I'm going to avoid you like the plague...

well i guess she thinks theres a click somewhere on this form as she stated the main group. you know weather ur friends or not weather you said something or you think you did,nt. someone got their feelings hurt and that would make most people feel bad. but this tread was started and now she got her feelings hurt even more. you know even my 4 year old knows to say i,m say i hurt your feelings even tho she did,nt do anything wrong but she still knows it not nice to hurt someone weather you meant to or not. i,ve had ww post on some of my treads and some of the things she said i did,nt agree with but i did,nt get nasty. you know some people don,t have thick skin and have a very hard life they come here to find friends and info on casinos. and maybe if they r lucky they make a few good ones. i know i have. so please step back away from the computer take a deep breath and know that this is not worth hurting someones feelings. be kind to everyone you meet you never know what kind of battle they r fighting. now shake hands and be nice.
 
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Just a personal opinion here, not a professional statement, but I always had a problem with such statements about cussing, always seemed kind of stuck-up and 'I know better than you' to me.



I agree with the points that you've made, specifically with "performance art" and that doesn't quite translate online. I never tell anyone that they shouldn't swear, because I swear as well. I concur that it can be seen and taken as a stuck-up statement.



But the key points were 'humility','accountability' and having to 'resort' to foul language. Unlike at this site, I can think of a large number of websites out there, that let the foul language run wild. When the membership gets those kinds of no holds barred privileges, it can get pretty ugly pretty fast, specifically with the points that you made in mind.



... some folks of the doily set, or the preachy set, think they know what is best



Okay. Understood.




Steed


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OH........OK! :D Send me one of them there pills would you? ;)


Only if i can pass them around to everyone, so calming and just makes you peaceful and stress free:) nope ya'll cant have none of my happy pills, its what keeps me sane lol:D im really really going to bed now, nite ya'll:):):)

Laurie
 
When the membership gets those kinds of no holds barred privileges, it can get pretty ugly pretty fast, specifically with the points that you made in mind.

Tell me about it! Some of you may remember my days at another gambling website and back in the day there our policy was anything short of gunshot wounds was fair game.

Bad idea! It's basically just a cheap and easy way to gain a vocal membership: quantity not quality, to say the least. In the end though it always gets you. Either the whole show goes down the toilet so badly that even the trolls get sick of it and move on, or you eventually decide to try and clean things up and find that your membership is now your enemy. Or both. Not good either way.

Ah well, live and learn. :cool: Of course I'm a kinder, gentler soul now and am devoted to my pansy garden.
 
Of course I'm a kinder, gentler soul now and am devoted to my pansy garden.

I don't have a clue what you look like Max, but the picture I have in my head of you tending a pansy garden.......gave me a great big laugh. :thumbsup: Thanks.....I needed that.
 
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I agree with the points that you've made, specifically with "performance art" and that doesn't quite translate online. I never tell anyone that they shouldn't swear, because I swear as well. I concur that it can be seen and taken as a stuck-up statement.



But the key points were 'humility','accountability' and having to 'resort' to foul language. Unlike at this site, I can think of a large number of websites out there, that let the foul language run wild. When the membership gets those kinds of no holds barred privileges, it can get pretty ugly pretty fast, specifically with the points that you made in mind.







Okay. Understood.




Steed


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Why am I thinking of Billy Martin and Earl Weaver??

I am member of two sports forums both involving the NFL. One is tightly moderated and on the verge of failure. The other is basically not moderated, very sucessful but makes the CM forum look like going to church. CM's moderation is somewhere in between, not perfect but better than the alternatives I have experienced.
 
I realize each post stands on it's own merit and it takes only one post to damage.

That said, blame me for my initial post that was arrogant, sarcastic, opininated and factual among other descriptions. There was also a sincere apology (thus the two smilies) for my arrogance in this same post plus an acknowledgement that I could understand how one could be confused by the categories of The Rogue Pit in defense of Wagerwitch's possible misunderstanding(s) and thereby my possible incorrect insinuations.

After my initial post, I am not sure how you (or anyone else) can single out anyone. It took more than one party on what at times simply was absurd, insane and granted much more. There were voices of reason during the chaos including BB's (but that is JMO).

The above said, just for giggles, I did count (+ or-) the number of hanging chads aka number of posts that occurred in the two threads by the main culprits after my initial post less than 24 hours ago. The only conclusion from below, imo , is the finger can be pointed at all et al.

WW=40
BB=13
Pina=9
NashV=4
JSteed=4

Okay Nash, that is probably your most coherent post in months. That was kind of personal, but I mostly appreciate (if not understand) your posts.

WagerWitch, I missed that Nash was parodying your posting style, until YOU POINTED IT

Just Kidding, sort of.

My feelings were hurt here recently, so I can relate. But I think you take things on a much more personal level than they are meant.

BB asked if meister member affiliates should be held to higher standand, and I vote YES

Do I think meister affiliates should be barred for not holding higher standards than CM requires...NO.

Do I think any affiliate should be called out on who they promote? YES

Do I think affiliate should have a reasonable time frame to make changes to their sites? YES

Do I think many of us need a chill pill? YES
 
Okay Nash, that is probably your most coherent post in months. That was kind of personal, but I mostly appreciate (if not understand) your posts.

WagerWitch, I missed that Nash was parodying your posting style, until YOU POINTED IT

Just Kidding, sort of.

My feelings were hurt here recently, so I can relate. But I think you take things on a much more personal level than they are meant.

BB asked if meister member affiliates should be held to higher standand, and I vote YES

Do I think meister affiliates should be barred for not holding higher standards than CM requires...NO.

Do I think any affiliate should be called out on who they promote? YES

Do I think affiliate should have a reasonable time frame to make changes to their sites? YES

Do I think many of us need a chill pill? YES

Great post Jasminebed! And thanks for your answers to the question I asked that had completely been forgotten.


Off topic, but I had to smile when I read what you said to Nash......because I so agree. It was very clear and coherent. Keep that up Nash and you'll have to give your new siggy back. :cool:
 
I don't have a clue what you look like Max, but the picture I have in my head of you tending a pansy garden.......gave me a great big laugh.

My dear Pappy described me as being "built like a brick shit-house". So yes, Max + pansy garden = LOL.
 
This is a gambling forum...supposed to be adults on here. God, I speak harsher than that when I'm out at the grocery store and someone pisses me off.

Note to self. Remove Canada from World Tour itenerary.

I have been rude and sometimes it takes being rude to get through to someone.

Not sure about that one Jod. By getting through, if you mean pissing them off then yes it probably does ;) I think if you want something done or changing, the LAST thing you do is be rude to the person you want to effect that. It's human nature - if someone's been rude to you you want to get them back.

I often shake my head when I see people being rude to waiters and waitresses before they've eaten all their food :oops:


Just a personal opinion here, not a professional statement, but AFAIC, cussing is a fine and healthy part of our shared English language.

Swearing is fine here at CM IMO - everyday stuff really - as long as it's within reason and not used in a confrontational way.

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There is one thing that causes all these problems: Confrontation. Take that out, you have a happier membership and things can get done. Throw it in and you get all your personal agendas, bitch fests and wasted time and much less gets achieved. Just try and avoid it if you can for everyone's sake.
 
Readers should note that Simmo is under review by the Vatican for being canonized and would be known thereafter as St. Simmo, Patron Saint of Happy Campers. :D
 
Readers should note that Simmo is under review by the Vatican for being canonized and would be known thereafter as St. Simmo, Patron Saint of Happy Campers. :D


Huh? I didnt know that a street would be named after Simmo. In Hong Kong, many streets are named after the governors of the colony:D

Okay Nash, that is probably your most coherent post in months. That was kind of personal, but I mostly appreciate (if not understand) your posts.

WagerWitch, I missed that Nash was parodying your posting style, until YOU POINTED IT

Just Kidding, sort of.

My feelings were hurt here recently, so I can relate. But I think you take things on a much more personal level than they are meant.

BB asked if meister member affiliates should be held to higher standand, and I vote YES

Do I think meister affiliates should be barred for not holding higher standards than CM requires...NO.

Do I think any affiliate should be called out on who they promote? YES

Do I think affiliate should have a reasonable time frame to make changes to their sites? YES

Do I think many of us need a chill pill? YES


This is exactly what most posters should be doing. Answer the questions dammit. However, I dont agree with Jazzy's last answer. I would say NO, at least 3.:D
 
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Readers should note that Simmo is under review by the Vatican for being canonized and would be known thereafter as St. Simmo, Patron Saint of Happy Campers. :D


Gonna form a band called the Self Righteous Brothers. Whaddya think? :D
 
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