arbster said:
Agree agent007, which is why I didn't like Mitch's example. Yours is closer to this case.
I think I will have one last go at illustrating the point I am trying to get over.
I used that example not because it is exactly analagous to this casino situation but bacause it is illustrative of the kind of thought processes we have to go through in our adult lives if we are to be successful in the lottery of life.
Humans need to care for their children until quite a late age. One reason for this is that when you are young you tend to take statements at face value. Thats why we have Father Xmas and Tooth Fairies (I hope I haven't given the game away to some of our members
) Being totally trusting is a very pleasant way to live but is potentially fraught with danger if you are unlucky.
As we grow up and gain experience, we still take account of what people say but learn to weigh this up against known facts and our past experiences before deciding what to do.
I will give one more example.
You need to employ a person to do work at your house, plumbing, electrical etc.
Your policy is that before entering into a contract with someone you require them to produce their id and confirm they have the appropriate qualifications. (learnt that along the way you did)
You know that this is not a legal requirement but hey this is your place, your life, your risk and you are setting the T&Cs.
A person turns up who you do not know and submits documents which you subsequently discover have been faked.
When challenged he tells you he sent you those by mistake and that he had actually used them to fool another client to whom he had lied. He produces another set of documents which he assures you are genuine and assures you he is all above board now and when can he start.
So will members who feel the casino made the wrong decision answer, honestly, whether they would employ this bloke.
I expect to get replies that say yes and some of them will be honest.
If you do, you are, I am afraid, in that group where a lot of lifes victims come from. They go around bewildered why bad things happen to them when they are such nice people.
Mind you, I take my hat of to you, if everyone took that attitude and it was always reciprocated the world would be a much better place to live in.
Mitch