Ofcourse it goes deeper, and I think we all know a lot of the problems.
I wrote a post last night, and it became VERY long, and VERY political, and when I was done writing it, and read through it, I decided not to post it.
I know for a fact, that eventhough I did not say anything in my post, to offend anyone, some of what needs to be said would offend some Americans, and I would be seen as "bashing usa". I also know that a lot of Americans, and especially Americans who made the move to, and know, other parts of the world, would agree with me. I personally know quite a few Americans who moved to Europe, and was absolutely stunned at how some things are different. I made the move to Canada, and have been in the states as well, and eventhough I knew I would have to adapt, I was floored by how different, especially the work market works on this side of the pond.
We have talked a lot about the difference in culture...one of the biggest differences between Europe and USA, and Canada for that matter, is the way workers have been standing up for themselves in Europe through the last 100 years. They have fought their asses of, to make a society, where people are treated fairly, and somewhat equally, regardless of background, and the way they make a living. It has been a fight, and most europeans are very proud of what their grandparents and great grandparents have been willing to sacrifice, and of what has been accomplished...THIS is European, and especially northern european history, and one that a lot of European workers should be, and are proud of.
When we mention how things work in Europe, and try to tell Americans how things could be different from the way it is in America, we're often met with hostility and sarcasm, and are (with some sarcasm) told "oh how lucky you are to live in a perfect place ...utopia" and that "you don't really want to hear us bragging, and telling you how to do things".
Every time this happens I think to myself ... do you remember how this discussion started ? It wasn't about MY problems. And I for one, do not want to appear to be superior, and tell people the "right way" to do things, but I DO want to exchange experiences, and the only way to do that, is to tell you about my life, and my history, how things actually work, and the obvious differences.
I wish you would try to listen, and I most certainly will listen to you, with an open mind. There are things in America that, to me, are obviously stupid, because of MY history, MY life, and the way I was brought up, and if we're going to have the discussion, I'm going to have to tell you about those things...I'll not just tell you it's stupid, but I'll try to tell you WHY it's, in my opinion, stupid, if you'll just listen, and not get offended.
There are things in Europe that are obviously stupid as well...well tell me about it! Maybe I just don't see it, but I certainly won't get offended, if you point it out. I'm not here to tell you stories, to make MY life, and MY background look like roses and layercake, and yours look like poop. I love Americans .. they're fun and lovely people, and I have many, very good American friends, but if I dare say anything about their great nation, I'll see another side of them. Loosen up a bit....I might slap you in the face with some truth that you don't like to hear, but I love you just the same, and I welcome you to slap me back, if you agree to hug me, when we're done
I guess this is to be considered an apology to any American, who felt that I was here to "Bash America", and it made me ramble on for quite a bit.