A couple of points which make your story even more surreal and hard to believe.
- You requested the chat logs from "SOME OF THE OTHER CASINOS". That implies you have accounts with those "some" and a few more.
- In the other post, you say "I am quite new"
- So which is it? Many casino accounts aka experienced player or newbie? Can't be both! I might add, you sound very experienced and knowledgeable in what you are doing.
- So, you used your husband's/wife's card at "some of the other casinos"
- Hence, you must have completed that card authorization form quite a few times, right? And AS IF BY MIRACLE s/he never mentioned that s/he has an active SE with Spelpaus, NEVER?
- Of course, you never asked for "REFUNDS OF MY LOST DEPOSITS", simply because you were happy that you found a way to circumvent the system and still play. Addicts will do everything they can to stay under the radar. Asking for refunds would expose him/her.
I say it one more time, neither Casinos nor Spelpaus will ever say it is OK to make a deposit with a card of a player who has an active SE. It is just not feasible in the least to allow that as it will open the proverbial "Pandora's Box".
Taking all of the above, I'll stick for now to my verdict: You are actively circumventing the SE system and this is the first time you actually won big and wanted to withdraw. Too bad, the SE flagged up as it should. You tried to build an ironclad case for you by asking "innocently" and all that, just to prepare for such a moment.
As per your chat, you are talking about "CARDS", not a "CARD". Plus, again you never mentioned that she had an active SE. And I venture to say you knew about the SE because as per above, you did the same thing with "SOME OF THE OTHER CASINOS". No way, that the SE was never flagged up. If indeed it never did, then those casinos would be in for huge fines from the Spelinspektionen for not doing their due diligence.