I don’t want to come of as a dink, and not the purpose to add another nail ! You said your wife gave you permission to use her card , not really a smart thing especially if opposite to your experience and you have a HUGE hit and then it’s picked up when they reconcile, payout is canncelled for 3rd party use of card , you would be kicking yourself, of losing it at casino. (Happened to me I ran $40 deposit up to $23K, lost some , requested a $18k cash out on Casumo years ago,, their decision ? refunded my $40 and banned me !) The only silver lining they made that decision fast so I did not have time to mourn is as “MY” money !!
Or if She suddenly changed her mind or in fact permission was Never given , to fix this all that needed to be done to resolve was hand your wife back her card, and cash equalling the amount you used , and apologize. You either did or did not give permission can’t be both positive.
Or option 3 ; it’s commonplace to use wife’s card,,you lost a bunch of $$ and stewed on it ; talked to ChatGpt and it
Convinced you card misuse by the cash no and easy a slam dunk to get your money back, and it’s stupid casino deposit sortware/processor . Win -Win all round wife not mad for lose , plus you are rebated so you can gamble more and blame someone/else for the losses , and not even consider the bigger picture , which I pointed out above. I’m not saying this to come across as a dick, just if you didn’t pause and reflect , probably never even registered as theft /fraud , you were on track to commit some form of at worst fraud, at best manipulation to fix the loss, you may want to look at GamBan or similar or a frank discussion with your partner , so no more red flags or worse.
Wish you the best and I’m glad you saw the bigger picture when you were still in control to fix .