WagerWitch, this isn't personal but there was a thread a long time back where you made a comment that got under my skin, but I choose not to comment then because of the other big issues that were going on in that one.
It is
this post in this thread that I'm referring to and this is the comment you made.
"I'm one of those folks that plops some casinos on the site - without knowing a couple of their backgrounds - but usually as soon as I find out - I try to NEVER support or bring them up again." and there is also this comment of yours that you said in the same thread. "
Hell - I don't even know if I had rouges on my site any more - I didn't have the energy after the chemo to go through all of them...SO IF ANYONE sees a rouge on my site - let me know. "
As I said, I left it alone then because of the importance of what was going on in that thread and also I felt bad knowing you had been sick so I bit my lip but after this thread and some of the comments you've made here, I've got to say to say a few things. From your comments there, it's clear that you didn't research well what you were doing or the sites you decided to promote, actually it sounds as if you mostly just threw some banners up and hoped for the best and educated yourself a bit after the fact. It does seem that you are more responsible now but yet it's clear that you weren't in the beginning and your effort seemed haphazard in the beginnning.
I do not agree with you in your stance that it's more of the players responsibility. I think the greater responsibility lies with the affiliates as depending on their level of knowledge it's much to easy for the new player and often times old players to be taken advantage of and they often times are and yes I think a lot of affiliates know this and set it up this way for their benefit.
It's OK - if you don't agree - that's why there are discussions out there. I enjoy discussions - and while I don't always agree with everyone - I DO enjoy hearing their opinions and thoughts... It may not change my mind - and I may not change theirs - but it is ALWAYS good food for thought. Yanno? So - I truly thank you for sharing your thoughts on the issues when we discuss them - and I will NEVER take anything personally that wasn't MEANT personally... or I will come talk to you - or say something OK?
So - remember that always - when dealing with me - I like discussions - and I'm not going to treat you any differently if you don't agree with my point of view - as long as you're willing to listen - and share your point of view - then we'll be totally happy together (snugglebunny bff - LOL!)
Yes - when I first started doing the affiliate thing - I had 2 casinos that appeared to be totally cool - but were, in all respects NOW THAT I HAVE LEARNED - bad.
In fact - both of them no longer exist.
So - it was a learning curve for me as well.
And TRUTH be told - """""ME --- I --- believe people should be ethical in dealing with everything ---- NOT JUST GAMBLING - but EVERYTHING""""
I'm no where near perfect.
But - for me --- I TRY TO PROMOTE ONLY GOOD CASINOS....
OK?
So this thread - the concept was NOT about "ME".
It was thinking - whoa... Wait a moment. This one person wrote the FBI about an affiliate website.
Wow.
That makes me totally want to scramble and leave this business.
Because as much as I love gambling and want to share the fun and good deals with folks - and hope they win BIG...
I do NOT want to go to jail for it.
I do NOT make very much money from my site.
In fact - most of the people playing from my links seem to be winning BIG - or not depositing - which is fine... I didn't start the site to make a lot of money - I started it to share bonuses.
But I certainly do not want to go to jail - or have my name on a list somewhere by law enforcement.
I am just an advertiser.
I am like the newspaper that takes coupons.
I show off those coupons and it's up to the people to cut them out and use those coupons for the products in them.
I can only tell MY experience at the casino - and most casinos I have played with have treated me right.
I can't tell cash out issues at most casinos - WHY?? Cause my stupid arse RARELY cashes out. I would rather play for 6 hours straight than cash out 200.00. That's where the fun lies in gambling for me.
But I can tell how the customer service is - how much I accumulated from the bonus - etc.
So that's what I do.
NOW - if I had a rogue casino - and that ROGUE casino treated me GOOD - I would have a good perspective of them - wouldn't I?
So - I can see how affiliates - who don't have ALL the tools (GG GWPA CM, ETC.) could be promoting bad or rogue casinos - WITHOUT the INTENTION to hurt any players.
Or if they don't have the time or inclination to go look up stuff...
And I can see how the affliates aren't really looking at the casino - and saying YAY - this is a bad casino - let's promote it.
They are looking at the bottom line: The Dollar - or the link stats - that make the dollar.
Now - on my site - I have a disclaimer - What you use on MY site is YOUR CHOICE --- I'm just showing you what I LIKE. (legal disclaimer, yadda yadda)..
OK?
Now - I believe that I do not promote bad casinos - because #1 I do not want them to continue in business - so I'm not giving them my business - NOR do I want them to have more advertising on the web... At least not at "MY HOUSE"... LOL
But this is ME...
And I can ONLY tell you about how I do it.
If - let's say - a player comes to my website.. And they win from a bonus - then they play at a casino - and they cash out - GREAT!!!
If on the other hand - they go to a casino - and spend ALL their life savings - Am I responsible for sharing the link???
Or what if a casino goes bad ON them?? Am I responsible - because at the time - I promoted them - the casino was good...
When and where does the affiliate responsibility end?
I'm not responsible for the person choosing to gamble.
I'm not responsible for them choosing to spend XXX amount of dollars.
I'm not responsible for them clicking on specific ads.
I'm not responsible for them maxing out their credit cards chasing a win.
But for me - I choose to put out the casinos that I think are decent.
Now - Am I responsible for what the player does?
I don't think so.
I think I've done my best to give them a representation of what I think is good.
It is their choice to continue...
Whether they believe my choices or not.
I think the player holds some responsibility for choosing to gamble - and choosing where to gamble.
And trust me - I too - lost thousands to icky nasty scum bag places BEFORE I learned about them.
But I BEAR the responsibility for my choices.
Just as if I were to cut out the coupon in the newspaper and buy a product...
If that product didn't work for me - I wouldn't be chasing after the newspaper - I would be chasing after the company that produced the product or service that sucked.
I think the bottom line is the advertising people should try to promote the good casinos.
But - when a bad one gets in the mix ---- as I have seen happen before --- then it TRULY is up to the player to determine what is right for them.
(ps. thanks for worrying about my health - it IS coming back slowly - I would never wish this crap on my worst enemy...)