Well that's one way to deal with facts mack - you do you I suppose
I think Leavers underestimate how little of a shit the EU gives about the UK now, we've left, we're just another third country, and when we want stuff we can just get in the queue - no special treatment, no concessions (ironically of course, which we often got when we were in the EU), simply another third country.
And on that note, do you really think the EU were plotting in 2016 to charge Brits £6 under the ETIAS scheme in 2021/2022? Like they haven't got infinitely bigger fish to fry?
Leavers still care far more about the EU than the EU cares about them, considering they were the 'winners' they still seem very unhappy about what has transpired, accusing the EU of 'punishing us' over stuff that was being sorted out five years ago.
When Johnson and the Tories won the General Election that was it for the EU side, the point of no (short-term) return was crossed – Britain would now definitely be leaving, and with an unreliable and populist Prime Minister armed with a hefty majority, the EU retrenched to defending its side. Rejoin, or indeed even any sort of normalisation of UK-EU relations, was then and still is not even close to viable on the UK side, and will not be at least until Johnson and Frost have left the scene – and possibly not even until the Tories are no longer in power. With that in mind, the European Commission strategy has to be two-fold: to constrain the worst excesses of the UK side, and to shore up support for Ireland and try to make the UK maintain its commitment to what it agreed in the Withdrawal Agreement, Northern Ireland Protocol, and Trade and Cooperation Agreement.
Now that might mean that British pro-EU people might be annoyed. Why, they might ask, is the EU not showing much flexibility regarding Northern Ireland (or indeed regarding a whole host of other issues that have cropped up throughout Brexit – from handling COVID border closures to Britain’s non-participation in Erasmus)?
The answer is that, for the moment, the European Commission correctly sees the UK as a lost case. Correctly sees a problematic state with a land border with the EU with an unreliable government that is a problem to be contained rather than solved. Correctly sees that defending the EU in the eyes of the populations of the 27 EU Member States is more important than even participating in the hot headed discussion in the British Tory-leaning press.