Well, alot seems to have happened over this!!
I always write down each deposit and withdrawal on a piece of paper, then I transfer a running total to a spreadsheet, and check online that the numbers add up (debits from Neteller & my card). I check in each withdrawal as received, and know pretty soon if I am subject to an unwarranted delay.
If I have any doubt about a set of deposits not tallying, I take copies of the records and keep them till I have made the figures balance. This happened a couple of times with card transactions taking weeks to appear on my card, it was hard to match them back to the deposits, but in the end I did.
In this sorry situation, even if it seemed the casino wasn't helping, a PAB should have been the next step since Inet AND ClubWorld are both accredited. Disputing charges with a bank, especially if you are in the US, only serves to highlight your gambling activity, not a good idea.
At first, I believed Babs was caught up by the bank playing nursemaid due to UIGEA, but it seems that Babs had a tendency to use the chargeback as a weapon of FIRST resort in resolving a dispute - this will always destroy a player's reputation with casinos.
I very much doubt that Inet would take a continuing risk with Babs, given that her deposits are small & many, and fees should this ever be repeated will be out of proportion. Merely from a business point of view, this risk would be too high. I have been of the impression that players who make chargebacks get banned from online casinos, and even get their activities logged with fraud prevention agencies that the industry uses, such as ProcCyber's "Risk Sentinel" system. I am surprised therefore, that Babs claims to be able to come to a quick amicable solution with both casinos named in this issue.
Another couple of posts does seem to indicate that some US banks are likely to take it upon themselves to return charges they consider related to gambling, even if the customer does not specifically dispute them. This IS a danger, and those processors who still return the merchant code for a gambling transaction when the card is issued from a US bank are asking for trouble. Here in the UK, one card was incredibly oversensitive to gambling transactions, and stopped over 50% of them seemingly on the whim of some automated "black box" fraud detection system. Luckily, these were stopped, not let through and later returned by the system, which from the casino's end would look just like a chargeback. I have even been contacted about the ones that went through, and asked if I wished to dispute them, and I have just listened to the list and confirmed each to be authorised by me. I would not be all that surprised if this "nursemaiding" by some UK banks lead to some UK players, on receipt of such a call, and having had a bad day at the games, simply pretend the charges were unauthorised, and I am sure the banks would not dispute this, as it seems they are geared up to there being a big problem with unauthorised gambling transactions.
I worry this is going to make it harder for UK players to deposit, let alone those from the US. Again, I am surprised at the number of casinos that would far rather we use our Credit cards (where we could chargeback on a whim), but really do not like us using eWallets such as Neteller, where the casino, once paid, is not going to have to run the risk of a chargeback on a whim. Some go so far as to offer generous extra bonuses for credit card deposits, and tell Neteller users they are BANNED from ANY bonuses.
Casinos need to learn, that for them, Credit card, and VISA Debit cards for that matter, allow players to dispute charges for any reason, whereas eWallets do not provide for this, and in addition do not normally allow players to deposit money they don't have, which can happen with some credit and debit cards.
It CAN be the case that a player can be seen as having made a chargeback from the casinos point of view, simply because "the system" views all online gambling as "dodgy", as well as illegal in the USA one the bank KNOWS the nature of the transaction.
For US players, it would be best to avoid this danger by switching to methods that cannot be subject to a chargeback, but also sticking to trusted casinos who will not abuse this vulnerability of players not being able to dispute a rogue transaction.