Thoughts for Bebo67 on her sad loss

[pereblue]

So sorry @bebo67.... The loss of a loved one is something that unfortunately we have to go through in life, our parents, grandparents, uncles, friends, ... but having to live the loss of a child must be even more difficult to assume. If you are a believer you can "support" your loss in that superior being and somehow try to alleviate your soul thinking that God will welcome him with all the love he deserves, personally I am an atheist but in such hard times to believe that he is in heaven and that although he is not physically by your side, he is looking at you and trying for you in heaven can comfort you. You have the best wishes and positive thoughts for you and the rest of your family.

 

[geordiecolin]

I feel horrible asking for donations, but everything was so unexpected. His work has started a goFund me to help with cremation costs. He doesnt qualify for public help. His body is with the coroners office right now. Thank you everyone.

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I hope that you/they achieve their goal with this in what can be a shitting month for folks finances x

 

[LadyJelena]

This is devastating to read. And there are no proper words to say or write.

Deeply sorry @bebo67, that is so not fair.
May he rest in peace.

 

[pereblue]

 

[bebo67]

Thank you everyone. This has been so hard. I found him Friday when I went to wake him up for work. Soon as I saw him I knew. I started shaking him, and yelling for him to wake up and he wouldnt.....he wouldnt wake up. That will stay with me for the rest of my life. They let me lay with him and hold him until they took him. He meant so much to me .

 

[L&L-Jan]

Don't like to read the above as the same happened to my mother when she was waking up Pa. She heard him going for a toilet visit at 4am, never woke after. He's been sick since I was 15, that's 20 years ago. I also lost a brother, and from the worth by my mom and pop, there is nothing in life worse than losing your own kid. And I fully understand them, and you!

I'm so sorry for your loss and my biggest condoleances. We will contribute tomorrow as a proper farewall for a loved one is very important.

Wishing you all the strenght and power to recover accordingly!

Big hug!

Kr. Jan

 

[bebo67]

Here is a picture of him and I, the day he left for college 4 years ago.

 

[bebo67]

Don't like to read the above as the same happened to my mother when she was waking up Pa. She heard him going for a toilet visit at 4am, never woke after. He's been sick since I was 15, that's 20 years ago. I also lost a brother, and from the worth by my mom and pop, there is nothing in life worse than losing your own kid. And I fully understand them, and you!

I'm so sorry for your loss and my biggest condoleances. We will contribute tomorrow as a proper farewall for a loved one is very important.

Wishing you all the strenght and power to recover accordingly!

Big hug!

Kr. Jan

Thank you, and thank you to the others that had donated too.
I think about all the trauma I have been through over the years, and I was told when I had cancer, that one day I would understand why. Now I do. It was getting me prepared for this. Otherwise I dont think I would be able to survive this. I cant stop crying. I ask him repeatedly where he is. Just let me feel you, but nothing. Maybe Im too upset. Anyways I have to go. Sorry your mom went through that.

 

[CC07]

So sorry for your loss Bebo. Thinking about you xxx

 

[dave1888]

very sorry for your loss <3

 

[helenakp]

Bebo very sory for your loss...my big condoleances

 

[The Dude]

Hi Bebo,

I'm utterly speechless. I have five grown kids myself, and I can't even contemplate what you are going through. I am so, so sorry. I hope you have a close circle of friends at home that can help you cope. Thoughts are with you.

 

[senatorsNHL]

I'm so sorry. I pray you find comfort. Please take care of yourself.