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One poem that I loved from I was a teenager, made me think about life when I get older....

An Old Lady's Poem

What do you see nurse, what do you see?
What are you thinking when looking at me?
A crabby old woman, not very wise,
Uncertain of habit, with faraway eyes?

Who dribbles her food and makes no reply,
When you say in a loud voice,"I do wish you'd try!"
Who seems not to notice the things that you do,
And forever is missing a stocking or shoe...

Who, resisting or not, lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding,the long day to fill...
Is that what you're thinking, is this what you see?
Then open your eyes nurse, you're not looking at me.

I tell you who I am as I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding as I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of ten...with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters who love one another.

A young girl of sixteen,with wings on her feet,
Dreaming that soon a new lover she'll meet.
A bride soon at twenty..my heart gives a leap,
Remembering the vows that I promised to keep.

At twenty five now I have young of my own,
who need me to guide and a secure happy home.
A woman of thirty, my young now grown fast,
Bound to each other, with ties that will last.

At forty, my young have now grown,
But my man is beside me to see I don't mourn.
At fifty once more, babies play round my knee,
Again we know children, my loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me ,my husband is dead,
I look to the future and shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing young of their own,
And I think of the years and the love I have known.

I'm an old woman now..and nature is cruel;
'Tis jest to make old age look like a fool.
The body it crumbles,grace and vigour depart,
There now is a stone, where once was a heart.

But inside this old carcass, a young girl still dwells,
And now and again my battered heart swells.
I remember the joys, I remember the pain,
And I'm loving and living life over again.

I think of the years...all too few, gone too fast,
And accept the stark fate that nothing can last.
So open your eyes nurse, open and see,
Not a crabby old woman, look closer, see me!



I always found this to be a beautiful poem, because it is so true, hope you all enjoyed reading;)
 
To be honest Mary it brought a tear to my eye as I get ready for my only child to leave the nest this summer.:(

Beautiful words-thanks for sharing!

I thought it might put things into perspective, as a lot of us get caught up in the here and now, this is one of the very few poems that have never left my memory as it has been so beautifully put into words:)

I am very pleased to share this so no worries, life waits for no man, woman or child;)

LOL Beth, he may leave the nest, but he will never forget his mammy;) He knows where to find you:thumbsup: and trust me, he'll be back when he needs you:D
 
Thank-you, for this!

I just turned 50 and my life is going to fast. I have been thinking about the past. How much longer do I have to last?

Live life, as I am trying each day to get 'there' back in the saddle, so to speak....since my hubby had a heart last year and STILL I cry each day because of 'what' life could be today.

I am trying to make small changes, each day to make a differnce in our lives.( My hubby and me). Because I have been distant from him...but since last year ..I am trying hard, so not to regret.


BTW...some nurses ( sorry 'T' not you;) you show yourself to be caring each day, here!)

My mum was a nurse and a damned good one, her patients had our home phone number if they ever needed anything( District Nurse, SRN, in the UK)

But, although my hubby was taken care of sooooo well in ICU...the emotional care was not there...to me or to my worried family..very dismissive and wouldn't let me be with my husband when he was on life support overnight to sleep next to him in a chair....but I insisted and spoke with the Nursing admin...and I got my chair.


But the main thing is ...my husband is alive because of their medical care.:notworthy


I think we all are still 16 or 18 yrs old no matter what our age is......

When I was a nursing Auxillary in the UK...I made it my job to make the elderly feel like they matter!

I could go on and on about this...but it seems that I have, already! :D


Thanks again for this wonderful poem, Immortality!!!!
 
Thank-you, for this!

I just turned 50 and my life is going to fast. I have been thinking about the past. How much longer do I have to last?

Live life, as I am trying each day to get 'there' back in the saddle, so to speak....since my hubby had a heart last year and STILL I cry each day because of 'what' life could be today.

I am trying to make small changes, each day to make a differnce in our lives.( My hubby and me). Because I have been distant from him...but since last year ..I am trying hard, so not to regret.


BTW...some nurses ( sorry 'T' not you;) you show yourself to be caring each day, here!)

My mum was a nurse and a damned good one, her patients had our home phone number if they ever needed anything( District Nurse, SRN, in the UK)

But, although my hubby was taken care of sooooo well in ICU...the emotional care was not there...to me or to my worried family..very dismissive and wouldn't let me be with my husband when he was on life support overnight to sleep next to him in a chair....but I insisted and spoke with the Nursing admin...and I got my chair.


But the main thing is ...my husband is alive because of their medical care.:notworthy


I think we all are still 16 or 18 yrs old no matter what our age is......

When I was a nursing Auxillary in the UK...I made it my job to make the elderly feel like they matter!

I could go on and on about this...but it seems that I have, already! :D


Thanks again for this wonderful poem, Immortality!!!!

I pray your husband is now doing well, I think this poem reflects more to people in care home facilities who are no longer able to look after themselves with basic hygiene and basic living:)

I agree that we all still feel like teenagers no matter what;) after all those are the best years of a persons life:)

I'm so glad you enjoyed this poem as much as I did (I first read it when I was 15 and appreciated it):)
 
I pray your husband is now doing well, I think this poem reflects more to people in care home facilities who are no longer able to look after themselves with basic hygiene and basic living:)

I agree that we all still feel like teenagers no matter what;) after all those are the best years of a persons life:)

I'm so glad you enjoyed this poem as much as I did (I first read it when I was 15 and appreciated it):)

Exactly, Immortality!!!!!.Damn sorry...lol

I remember a very quiet elderly man, his name was Lewie.

He sat alone and no one else spoke to him...in the elderly ward.

He told me his nails were dirty from his constipation( I know, I know) his long nails. No nurse addressed this...so I soaked his nails in soapy water and got them clean.

Then, I moved his chair so that he could see the one tv screen in the next ward..( this back in the early 80's)...british wards, ya know?

He and I sat together and watched TV...he was soooo happy! He had changed from being quiet to being smiley happy!

He kept looking at me with a smile, he was almost shaking from the new attention he was getting.

Later, after he left to go home with his daughter ( he asked for my address..as wanted to keep in touch) ..he sent (well, the daughter wrote it) a lovely letter thanking me and with a five pound note. :)

I will never forget him.
 
It's a sweet poem.

My mom (who is 87) puts it a little more succinctly. She has said: "Sometimes I walk by the mirror and wonder, Who the hell is that old woman?"
 
Thank You Immortality

Nurses are all human & we do our best to care for everyone we can.
It's a very rewarding job.
But I do have to say you do have many in this field that are in it for the paycheck & not the caring part.

Here are some great things to look at...

Nurses are Angels
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A Nurse's Prayer

Give me strength and wisdom,

When others need my touch;

A soothing word to speak to them,

Their hearts yearn for so much.

Give me joy and laughter,

To lift a weary soul;

Pour in me compassion,

To make the broken whole.

Give me gentle, healing hands,

For those left in my care;

A blessing to those who need me,

This is a Nurse's prayer.
Allison Chambers Coxsey
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