rena35
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First off i am not asking for legal advice just some direction on how to proceed with her estate. My mom passed and left no will. She did put me and my dad (never married 50 years together ) as beneficiary of her insurance in case of her death. I am also named as sole beneficiary to a couple of small things she had. My mom owned a house and very valuable pieces of jewelry and antiques . The deed to the house was given to her about 1994 from her old employer whom she worked for about 40 years. It is a condo and from my knowledge she owns it without any liens or mortgages against it. My aunts and uncles have asked me what am i going to do about the property and i have no earthly clue. My dad still lives at the house and he is elderly with chronic health issues. He even has a blood clot behind his heart. Since my mom's passing i am not taking it well at all. I have no need or want of this added stress as far as settling her affairs. In our state if the person who passed was not married it all falls to the child/children of the deceased . If someone has dealt with anything similar i welcome some advice. I don't put much stock in the (friendly ) advice of my relatives whom i have not seen or heard from since i was 3 years old. Now all of a sudden they care and call me daily to ask about my health and just chit chat. It makes me very nauseous and even more depressed and sad to hear their voices. My uncle (my mom's brother) ever so kindly said that since my health is bad and it is a stress to me, he can handle everything . Anyone can and will help , you can always pm me if it's more comfortable to do so. I am so lost rght now and feel overburdened with all of this from the coronavirus to this. As i put above, i know it is not legal advice but a place to start would be helpful. Thank you all in advance.