Something everyone should read.

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The Cab Ride


I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes
I walked to the door and knocked... 'Just a minute, answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.

After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.

There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.

'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, and then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.

She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her... 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.'

'Oh, you're such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, 'Could you drive through downtown?'

'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly...

'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice.

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have any family left,' she continued in a soft voice... 'The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.

We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'.

We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move.

They must have been expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

'How much do I owe you?'

She asked, reaching into her purse.

'Nothing,' I said

'You have to make a living,' she answered.

'There are other passengers,' Iresponded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.

'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said. 'Thank you.'

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light... Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life...

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift?

What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.

We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.

But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.

It's the little things that mean the most.


PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID ~BUT~THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL.
 
I received this in an email and cried as I was reading it. It hit close to home. In our busy lives we sometimes forget our elderly, and how lonely some of them are. They may have lost their close friends through the years, or family members, leaving them with no outside contacts.

I've worked at the same family owned restaurant for 31 years. 25 of those years I worked morning shifts. I had the same people come in every weekend, lol they would sit in the same booth every week and order the same food every week, for 25 years. You always say you won't become attached, but if you don't you miss out on a lot!

Anyways, I had this little lady who had lost her husband. Her children lived out of state and visits were few and far between. She had a friend who would pick her up every Sunday to take her to church and then bring her out for breakfast. When she started to become a regular, I would ask her how her week had gone, what she had done with her time, if she had talked to her kids. Simple, silly small talk. But it must have meant a lot to her, to have someone take interest in her goings on.

She was rather frail and had several health issues. Near the end, she missed a few weeks. I didn't think too much of it as I knew she was to have some minor surgery. Then one Sunday a middle aged man came up to me, asked if I was Kim. I must have gotten a strange look on my face as I had never seen this man before. He quickly went on to tell me he was Ruthie's son. He told me she had passed away a few days after her surgery. One of her last concerns was that someone from the family come down and let me know she was finally at peace. He went on to tell me that she appreciated the time I took to LISTEN to anything she had to say. I'm not talking about hours here, just minutes every week. Needless to say, I was a wreck for days afterwards.

I've met so many interesting people, but the most interesting are our older members of society. There is so much history in their lives. To some, it doesn't matter if you are family, just someone to listen to what they have to say is important. We can read in books or watch on television events from history. BUT, talk to someone who was alive during that time and let them tell you what it was like. I can almost guarantee, it will be one of the most fascinating conversations you will ever have.

Sorry for the derail...
 

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