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Do you really want to see the old flame from high school lol

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I would love to see them all.
A few have passed & many got a divorce.

"Do you really want to see the old flame from high school who once said, 'My love for you is dead'?"

The Most Dreaded Facebook Reunion
Do you really want to see the old flame from high school who once said, 'My love for you is dead'?

The online world is easily divided into two categories: 1) people who love the idea of getting together with everyone from their past and 2) um…me.

I was always like this. Before I lived online, I successfully avoided every high-school reunion. I turned a blind eye to the many invitations they sent, meant to flood me with thoughts of the good times I would have luxuriating among grayer, fatter versions of the same people who used to give me stomachaches when I passed them in the halls.

Believe it or not, there was once a time when you never had to see anyone from high school ever again.

I couldn't wait to graduate back in the day because, believe it or not, that was a fanciful, fairy-tale-like time when it was very easy for people to lose track of each other. Not only did Facebook change that, but it also seems to me that the precarious and unsettling reunions that Facebook enables may be partly responsible for the drop in the price of the company's stock.

The social networking world seems to exist to encourage the sharing of everything with everyone, every minute of every day. Step through that door and you're soon hosting a multimedia tour through a cuted-up, thumbnail-sized museum of your daily life. In no time, the pressure begins for you to share something personal, whether or not you have something to share. And the more you play along, the more daily life itself seems to be a mere ritual you endure in order to score sufficiently interesting things to post.

But once you have offered up some photos of a flaky golden-crusted chicken pot pie for the cast of hundreds of people from every phase of your life, does that mean you must also schedule a time to reunite with them all? How about if the proposed reunion involves a relationship that used to be intimate?
By MERRILL MARKOE
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It can be worth it sometimes, like when you see that kid that bullied you at school stacking shelves in the supermarket, where you ask him whether the store stocks that cutting edge home entertainment system that would take him 8 years to save up for. This didn't happen to me, but a friend had a teacher who constantly told him that he would never amount to anything. A few years later, working as a traffic warden, he ticketed a car and out came this same teacher to protest:D I believe the conversation started "Remember me sir........... I wouldn't amount to anything...":D

Autocratic teachers and bullies should bear this in mind. The useless, weedy kid may end up being in charge of you, and may very well be bearing a grudge.

Facebook can sometimes be a way to see how well you have done in life compared to the bully or bragger, or even the teacher.

As for reunions, surely the fact that you can share on facebook means there is LESS need to go and swap stories in person.

It was my niece that dragged me onto Facebook by creating an account for me which I had to take over. It backfired on her, because I was then able to keep a close eye on what she was up to, with whom, and for how much (useful when she phones asking for money:p). She often faces explaining the contradiction between what I find on Facebook, and her sob story reason for needing a bail out.
 
I'm with VWM on this one. Sometimes an encounter with a face from the past can be fun... even an old enemy.

Not really social media related, but your stories reminded me of one from my own life. Back when I was 19 or so I had a job working the night shift in a garage. Not exactly prestegious, but paid the bills.

One day my old headmaster walks in and joins the queue of customers waitng to pay. I can see he's spotted me straight away by his smug grin (we never got on... long story) . Eventually he makes it to the front and as he hands me a 20 says 'Soooo, Ian... this is where you've ended up for a career eh? Can't say I'm surprised' .. loudly enough for the rest of the queue to hear. So I quickly and politely replied: 'Mr Finnegan. Hey... how are ya. I hear your wife threw you out recently for sleeping with one of the sixth year exchange students. What you up to these days?''

It was only a rumour.... I wasn't sure... but when I saw the reaction I knew it was true :) . The rest of the customers broke down as he stormed out of the shop... all red faced and furious.... and having just been short changed £5 quid too. hehe

Hooray for the petty win ;)
 
FaceBook, I use it for only family and a very few close friends. Even some of the "apps" I would like to "like" but, they come up with a page stating"____ will be shared, i.e.friends, e-mail, other likes" So, I always say no. When people send me game requests, I say no....... If I am going to play a game, it is in a casino or on Pogo.

Other than keeping up with my close personal friends and family, I have no use for it.
 
FaceBook, I use it for only family and a very few close friends. Even some of the "apps" I would like to "like" but, they come up with a page stating"____ will be shared, i.e.friends, e-mail, other likes" So, I always say no. When people send me game requests, I say no....... If I am going to play a game, it is in a casino or on Pogo.

Other than keeping up with my close personal friends and family, I have no use for it.


Totally agree-just recently deactivated my facebook account. Screw Zuckerberg and his initial public offering. Feel sorry for people who bought in to that!
 
Yeah, I saw the other day the stock was going for HALF of what it started at. And a big-wig with FB sold 450,00 shares............. dumping them beore hey go down further??


That whole thing left a bad feeling in my gut!!!!!! As you said-I already had major reservations about using it before that whole thing went down.

My "close" family and friends can come see me or call once in a while LOL:p
 
I wonder where you were.
Yeah, I have a way of finding people on facebook, so I noticed you were gone:D



Besides the IPO debacle (that ticked me off) I am hopefully sending a message to my family members to make an effort to get more involved in my life and that of my son:D

I do understand that for some people it is a great way to stay in touch:)
 

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