Hi my wife is a gambler and we have had to take special measures, plus she is seeking help. A couple days ago she went on her bingo site without my knowledge she also added my debit card without my knowledge. She already has her own card registered and paypal but because they have been frozen by me she cannot use them.
She deposited money after money until she had cleared my bank account without me being none wiser the following day my card declined I rang bank and new straight away my wife had been playing bingo and stolen all my money.
she used £3360.00 in 24 hours.
She knows what she has done and accepts the guilt but she really can't help herself she is always chasing after the lost money.
I spoke to the bingo site and told them she had no permission to use my money I also asked how they allowed so much money to be deposited hour after hour and how she was able to use my card on her account.
They said they would look into it.
Unfortunately I need that money for bills and like I said my wife is well aware of her guilt and she could not hate and e lower than she is feeling at moment, I explained that my bank are willing to look into retrieving my money that was taken without permission or knowledge but it means an investigation into fraud and police my wife agreed we have no other choice I have bills and kids and no money. It's tearing me up to see her like this but even more to know I have to shop her in.
im so worried about what they will do once I investigation is finished.
Can anyone advice will she be arrested, face court /prison ????
Is there anything I can do to help her without lying. I love her dearly she is a loving wife fantastic mum and good friend she has never been in trouble.
Please any advice appreciated.
She deposited money after money until she had cleared my bank account without me being none wiser the following day my card declined I rang bank and new straight away my wife had been playing bingo and stolen all my money.
she used £3360.00 in 24 hours.
She knows what she has done and accepts the guilt but she really can't help herself she is always chasing after the lost money.
I spoke to the bingo site and told them she had no permission to use my money I also asked how they allowed so much money to be deposited hour after hour and how she was able to use my card on her account.
They said they would look into it.
Unfortunately I need that money for bills and like I said my wife is well aware of her guilt and she could not hate and e lower than she is feeling at moment, I explained that my bank are willing to look into retrieving my money that was taken without permission or knowledge but it means an investigation into fraud and police my wife agreed we have no other choice I have bills and kids and no money. It's tearing me up to see her like this but even more to know I have to shop her in.
im so worried about what they will do once I investigation is finished.
Can anyone advice will she be arrested, face court /prison ????
Is there anything I can do to help her without lying. I love her dearly she is a loving wife fantastic mum and good friend she has never been in trouble.
Please any advice appreciated.