Azzurri, congratulations.
You finally managed to chase your enemy Tirilej off the forum!
Man, you are so.. first class! So smart, I cant believe it!
Now open up a bottle of champaign to celebrate your utter Victory, because this must be YOUR moment of Exstasy!
It has to be because of your Wisdom that comes with your age (5 years old?) that you managed to reach this goal in life.
Again, congrats man, you truly ARE unmatched!
Tirilej is one of the nicest persons I have ever had the pleasure to meet.
Thats she leaves the forum because of you I'll never forgive you.
That slandercampaign you are accusing her for only exsists in your own pityful, childish mind.
We PM alot, and she never slandered you.
Your were the first person ever on my ignore list. Congrats again.
Thats why I didn't know what you were doing.
Btw, your back on ignore, so any reply will be a waste of virtual ink, like this whole thread actually is.
Just in case curiosity gets the better of you.
Firstly, very nice post, and it's been reported. I thought I'd give that a go.
I won't respond to your insults, as they say more about you than I, however, I will state that you, I and Tirilej, are all capable of making our own decisions, and being accountable for them.
In my opinion, Tirilej just played her ace, and based on your response alone, it was effective.
So congratulations to you my friend.
If you are fishing for sympathy, or you wish to project a feeling of guilt on me by her decision, then you will be left disappointed. You are obviously friends with Tirilej, and think you know her well. That's fair enough, and I can understand you may be upset with me because of the choice she made. I can also appreciate you are a loyal friend, and perhaps foolishly, wanted to defend her by attacking me. However, you are not my friend, and therefore do not know me from a bar of soap, hence you have no idea how nice or nasty I may be.
You simply know her story, and understandably have no interest in knowing mine. But know any pain, hurt, or offense she felt, I also felt. The difference between us, was I was accountable for my actions, apologized for any of my wrongdoings, and attempted to call a truce with her numerous times.
At no stage during our conversations, did she accept any accountability for her actions, nor did she apologize or initiate a truce between us. She did however repeatedly tell me what an arsehole I was, and how much I have hurt her. On hearing the hurt I caused her initially, I apologized, and tried to explain in response that I had also felt the same hurt from her. However, this was continuously ignored, followed by another rant on how evil I was, and the pain I was causing. She was irrational, explosive, and unwilling to compromise. Read into that what you will, but for these reasons I find your attack misguided, and you may appreciate I struggle to take it seriously, or on board.
Tirilej made her bed, laid in it, and ultimately chose her final fate by deciding to leave. The skeptic in me feels like we have not seen the last of her, and a 'Tirilej Appreciation' thread may be just what she needs, or more accurately wants. Of course, this time I won't initiate the idea.
Your claims are unfair, yet I appreciate your passion.
I hope this will be the end of this madness, and any potential copycats rethink their approach, and chose not to take up the baton such as you have here. If so, I'd much rather not, but know I will defend myself with the same vigor and conviction I've displayed previously.
I wish no harm on anyone, and do not seek to offend or upset another person for my own sick pleasure, or simply to get a reaction. I've proven this time again in many of my 'normal' posts, and by what I would describe as valid and beneficial thoughts on any discussion. I'm all for mutual respect and appreciation, yet if you wish to show me two shades, by smiling and nodding politely at me whilst crossing your fingers behind your back, you can expect any trust to be instantly broken, and hence the best you will get from me is a truce to co-exist. If you choose to break that truce repeatedly, then live with the choices you make.
If you really knew me, you'd know that mean or evil, is not my way. Don't confuse what may seem at times like confidently well written and direct responses, with evil or obnoxious evil intent. It's just how I write, and my words and voice have always been my only weapon if called upon. I also graduated with honors from the school of hard knocks, so playing mind games with the intent to manipulate or abuse a relationship will be quickly discovered, and called out.
You say Tirilej is one of the nicest people here. Granted maybe, but I know she has had past run ins with others, including Igor if I'm not mistaken, so even nice people may not like everyone. With this being said, is it possible that a nice person, who just happens to come across someone they don't like, may use that nice reputation in their favor in order to manipulate and discourage others from liking that someone she just can't get along with?
One of Tirilej's biggest hurdles, and one she admitted to me, was she could not understand the fact, of how or why other members liked me or my posts, when she didn't. That was shocking to me, yet explained clearly why she continued this feud long after I got over it. The one thing that may hurt or enrage a nice person, is not being liked by all. Tirilej made it clear she could not cope with this, and a nice person finds it hard to find fault in themselves, hence I was the designated reason and target.
You and others have chosen to focus on my actions alone, and as I am the more outspoken and controversial in the public domain, you assume you know the person I am, and that I must be playing the role of evil villain. That may be your opinion, however that's no reason to get involved, or join in on the attacks of others, purely based on my comments and your assumptions of what may occurred or the person I am. With me, what you see is what you get, and I don't change my approach, feelings or opinions, based on whether my posts can be seen publicly, or privately.
What the public could see from Tirilej publicly, was not what I saw for myself, or via other sources in private. Simply, one of us was a wolf in sheep's clothing, and I have always proudly been more of a Bear (more Seth MacFarlane's Ted, than wild grizzly).
De Beuker, you seem to know so much, based on knowing so little. I have no idea who you are, or where you've been hiding, but I received an infraction for telling someone to grow up, so on the balance of probability, enjoy your short break.
I'll say again to those who may have missed it previously.
The best way to move on and end this ridiculous discussion and tom foolery, is to cease posting and stop the attacks directed at me. Don't then cry foul if you then choose to abuse or attack me, only to not appreciate or like the response I give.
It's getting very boring.
EDIT: And how lovely to see some of you thank a post containing abuse directed at me. Again, says more about yourselves, than it does I, but also helps clarify some contradictions that puzzled me, and reaffirms my initial thoughts. Nice.
rolleyes
