Hi Addy! Nice to meet you! 
I think that every gambler will tell you different versions of gambling based on their history and experience with it. There is much knowledge on this site, the entire site, not just the forum. You should wander around and try to absorb as much as you can.
Then, start small with deposits and only play at Casinomeister accredited casinos. They are the most honest casinos on the web. Be sure to read up on bonuses. Like Silc said, do not take bonuses. I feel the same way, but a whole bunch of other members swear by them. Just ask questions here and there will be loads of help.
Last of all, GOOD LUCK!!!
Without Snark there is no Spark!!!....Swampwitch
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