On it`s 3rd return to Ladbrokes I managed to catch it before it went back and thought wtf, and started to play with it, I ended up with £250 more, made a fresh withdrawal and this time it went through np`s \o/.
On a footnote - Here we have an accredited casino and an E-wallet both blaming each other for the missing cash, good casinos can go bad, E-wallets also, Neteller have at least 1 blotch on their records, Moneybooker`s returned cash from peoples accounts without permission (Betfair), and more recently the EWX fiasco.
No matter what, we are trusting people/companies whom we have never met with 1000`s of pounds of our cash, and we`ve all seen what becomes of a tried and tested company when it goes tits up for them 
Anyway`s thx for your replies guys
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