hiding your casino play from wifey

[cpdnd31]

Ok so we now know that men and women think differrently. I don't like having to ASK for money. I dont feel its fair considering I make the same amount of money as hubby. If he wont go grocery shopping with me and I got do the work- what ever I save with coupon and sales I use my debit card and take that amount out right there at the cash register. Thats usally a good 400 a month. If I have to take the time to do the things he wont after 14 years of marriage Ive learned Im paying myself for it. He never asked when he wants his 300$ box of cigars or football pools or ncaa basketball pools. So why should I. When I win me and the kids have a great time..

[reda]

i usually as the wife always have to make out the bills and manage the money. my hubby cant manage money at all. when we first met i would take the income and pay everything owed and then my hubby would get approx a hundred dollars for mad money . this mad money was for any thing exta he wanted. but with in 2 days time he was broke. and during the week he would need more money. this got expensive. i gamble a little here and there but i dont drink beer. and i dont smoke expensive cigars so gambling 20 dollars here and there is nothing. also when i do win a r jackpot he wines and dines with me. steaks and seafood. and a shoping spree for a new tool or something he has been wanting. so when i do hold back money on him its not for my own personel use. its usally because theres always gonna be a rainy day and i have to be the money saver .