I'm glad your here but would you come to my home at 3 am if I needed you too?
Hell yes, that I would.....
I'm glad your here but would you come to my home at 3 am if I needed you too?
Once we sat down to dinner and there was a nice big pork chop, some potatoes and vegetables on our plates. My son looked down at his plate and said "I don't like pork chops."
I said, "Really? I do" while reaching across the table, stabbing his pork chop with my fork and dropping it on my plate.
You always have to maintain authority. I really hate watching kids arguing with their parents or worse, yelling at them.
Once my son was having a heated argument with his mother in the basement. His friend was there and they wanted to go out. I think she wanted him to clean his room or do some sort of housework. I went downstairs to see what the yelling was about and told my son to go upstairs. I guess he was still angry because he turned and yelled at me. Then his friend said to him something like "Just to. Maybe we can go to the beach tomorrow." (I used to take them to the beach in the summer a few times a week.)
I said "He's not going to the beach tomorrow, he has a doctor's appointment." My son looks at me now all totally confused and says "For what?" I said "I don't know but any kid yelling at me in my house must have something wrong with him."
His friend started laughing at him and he kind of put his head down, said sorry and went upstairs.
His mother never seemed to learn that you'll never win fighting with a child. If they know they can make you angry they'll do it on purpose. Kids will continuously test your authority. If kids don't respect the authority of their parents, who's will they respect?
This is the most accurate statement I ever read.
I already said before in this thread I wasn't the best mother with my oldest daughter. Me and her used to go at it like cats and dogs as she aged. (mid teens) When she was in her early teens she used to bug me and bug me about going to a dance or where ever when she was punished. I always gave in and let her go. She even told my younger daughter "if you want to do something just keep bugging mommy and she will let you go" I had to have a talk with the older one and have her tell the younger one she was only kidding about that, and she never did that, and she was just joking.
Sometimes it's not so fun having one daughter 12 years older than the other.