Why not continue to list acredited casinos, but just not link to them? I'd guess that's safe ground.
not just you rollo, but others here are of this opinion, i chose to quote yours since is was succinctly phrased.
the way i interpret it is that bryan is not sure he CAN ACCREDIT casinos that take US bets, totally aside from whether he links you to them or not. if the casino engages in a practice (be it shafting players on cashouts, taking bets from certain jurisdictions, operating without a licence, etc) that could be injurious to the players, it is bryan's responsibilty not to accredit them.
if bryan continued to accredit casino xyz that accepts US bets, then even without linking to them, he is still indirectly encouraging players to play there, from the US or otherwise. if the casino is subsequently shut down and its assets seized citing the illegality of accepting US bets, then players from all over the world, not just US, will get hurt because of it. and it would be bryan's fault everyone played there, and then especially if he was linking the site, then he might find himself in hot water.
would you encourage lending money to a drug dealer? would you send your kids to school knowing the teacher did time for molestation? bryan can't endorse his followers investing in a place that might be shady, whether the recommendation is direct through links or indirect through mentioning their name.
arguably also by endorsing sites that accept US players, bryan is encouraging US players to use neteller etc to put money into a casino, which may indeed be illegal. in this case, cm would be wilfully blind that his readers are committing these acts in order to gamble. though it's not his fault you went to the casino on your own time and deposited money however you did, by giving the impression that he promotes use of the casino, he incurs some liability when readers from the US choose to perform these acts based on his opinion. by omitting US-friendly casinos, bryan doesn't encourage any US citizens to a) play at casinos, and b) put money in casinos, and he does encourage all of his readers to play at casinos that he is certain are complying with the law.
unfortunately this means he is encouraging his US readers to play at no casinos, this is the residual that makes it seem like he is turning his back on you. but still he offers to mediate disputes for US players that DO CHOOSE to play wherever their bets are taken. so he still wants to help, but he just doesn't want to associate himself with the questionable legal issues regarding facilitation or encouragement of the placing of wagers.
that's my five cents on it. i understand americans' frustration, but realize that just like smoking pot, you are now somewhat of an out-group if you gamble online. considering the clout cm holds, i don't blame him in the least for wanting to exclude himself from liability.
p.s. bryan, in this topic there has been mention of your military service and that your family lives overseas in germany. are the two related, and is there any like "get to know me" thread where interested parties can learn more about bryan bailey the person?