Stop Private Groups or Be Banned From Clubs!

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Rambler

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:notworthyMy wife recently applied to a private group of casino junkies in here.

We spend about 4 to 6 K a month in Rival and Microgamming Casinos per month; we assume there is some sort of platinum club for this, lol, unless in Hong Kong.

The head of this Neferious Private group that makes Mesmer look tame, unnamed, came in this forum in 2006, and begged for forgiveness for working for a clandestine casino consortium ripping off players (us) and everybody gave her kudos for being honest for the first time and now, apparently, the last time..

Now this supposed innocent, so to speak, has set up shop here like Count Dracula in Carlsberg, and has tried to neuter the meister, to no avail.

A few weeks ago, the Meister said to my wife he spent a whole weekend contemplating private groups and their relevence on the site (interpretation), while we spend the same weekend giving bocu bucks to Rival and Microgaming Casinos alike.

This Sorority-like admonission on her private group part, borders on selacious behaviour and needs to come to a fast closure.

We find this form of click, cultish behaviour, bordering on the abhorrent, in that she has champagne tastes on a malt beer budget, by being the Queen Of Mean and falacious friend to all, while having less financial ability to play in aforementioned casinos groups; thus plays with the heads of real players and doesn't enjoy the beerfests we fondly remember in the U.K.

A good warm beer is better than batch of bad cold brew.

No one should be forming private groups on this site to try to steal identity/ stature or intellectual property, as we already belong to the Olympic Club with the Pacific Ocean view and picturestic view of Downtown San Francisco's Trans-Americar/Pyramid building, have to play the course to see this among the cypress trees near Pacifica, CA along the US 1, Coastal Hwy, and asking personal info., not just a movie to me is crappola as playing the course in Monterey.

We would love to see this woman sit at a private dinner party in the Saint Francis Yacht Club feet from Fort Point (the west corner), where the bay hits the window near the Golden Gate Bridge, but would ask my Uncle to ban her as unworthy, while we speak of the America's Cup and the like!

Casinomeister, get rid of this crap and tear down this wall..errr private group exclusions, or we are abstaining from playing for the simple reason we can, like the idiot that banned her and brings little profit to the Casino table, except false bragging rights and her own cult of personality.

Clandestine is clandestine for it's own supposed power. We aren't talking freemasons, but people that form kabbals in here and make it like a frat party or worse.

We buy our ink by the barrel and drink our beer the same way, by tap in a barrel.

So you woman of lowly esteem from background banned casinos, accept my wife, and other die hard players without thinking about it, or find our grapes of wrath, lol.

There is little difference between a pat on the back and a kick in the posterior, and it is less than a King's foot.

We post now and then, and less is more when dealing with gypsies or carnies in behavior patterns.

Actually, we are kidding; we play Trump's PGA course in West Palm.

We are also kidding about leaving. Why should we leave, when we are Real cold hard cash players, put your money where your mouth is, Players; and she should stay who plays with us for after being exposed her private group is now a fun house; if privacy weren't an issue the casinos can vouch and ouch over the amounts we play.

We play for fun and generally break even; for me it is akin to a round of Golf and to my wife it is like a Cinnabon; I am glad they don't cost us several K a month for a similar vice. We think we all get the message now.
 
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vegetagirl2008

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First of all what are you carrying on about this site belongs to the Bryan you just cannot come here and start demanding anything. How you like it if someone came to your house and start demanding things from you. Ever heard of a PM, you should try using it instead of making post like these.
 

BingoT

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It's Halloween.

I bet it's a full moon too.

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anniemac

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:what: Did I miss something cause I'm not getting much sense out of your post, Rambler? I take it someone has really pissed you off. Ease up. If it's something really bad, take it up with CM via PM (rhymes :D), if not, let it go.
 

GGW Laurie

Paleo Meister (means really, really old)
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Location
In the Beautiful South !!
Dear Rambler,

Im very sorry your wife was not invited into this private club and do hope that your not directing it towards me or any other member of this un named group, our club has had some great members in the past and continues to have up standing members involved now .

Those were some pretty nasty things you had to say about someone, well for myself for example, i also play at the casinos and have a great relationship with those casinos that are on board here at C/M, im sure they would agree:thumbsup:.

I just maintain our little club, its up to the members who is invited and who is not, we are like a family in there, we even have disagreements out on the forum but when we come into the club, we try to work them out, we have had some great members in the past who may have decide to leave on their own but still are like family to us.

We sure hope that this answers any questions as to what im still not to sure what you were saying lol, but my best to your wife and there are plenty of other groups that she can join, music, Robwin has a cool club, health club, arts, she can even start her own club, maybe about wine and yahts and sea shores and waves, whatever floats ones boat:)...................Thank You, Laurie
 

lauram

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Sighs Im confused. There are many groups in the site to join. After reading your post I also am not sure what you are getting at. You have something to say then spit it out, easier that way.
 

clj7221

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I had no idea this was posted until I was told at 5 am.... I had mailed casinomeister to remove it. Now with all the replies I will answer this.
First of all, It is amazing how I see the Thank You's on here. I was just reading a post from Casinomiester explaining that Thank you's are certainly not to use when ganging up on someone....

A few weeks ago I asked to Join your group LaurieJim. All you had to do was to mail me back and say sorry, we are not excepting anyone new now.Instead you mail me, asking me to tell you about myself and said your group will take a vote to see if I am accepted to the group. So, I mailed you back and told you a little about myself. You mailed me back that you need more information about me and what I gave you was not enough and your group members needed more information for the vote. So I took a chance seeing how everyone seems to think you are a nice person in here, and gave you more information about me. Then a day later you have another member mail me back that basically I was not accepted.

This was hurtful to me and mean spirited in my opinion. If I was not accepted so let it be who cares, but the way you did this was cold and mean spirited. I have seen your posts and you would not have liked to be treated this way either.So excuse my husband for his post. But when he saw how this hurt me, it hurt him to.
 
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vegetagirl2008

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I had asked to join as well. I had to wait until there was enough votes to let me in. But I am a patient person. But no one was mean to me. The group consists of member that care for one another and have gotten to know each other for months or even years. As members of CasinoMeister we look out for one another. I haven't been accepted either but I am not crying about. Eventually I will get in, right now that's not my top priority.

Its just a simple club. Its consists of members who are like family. I don't know why you was not accepted but I hope someone can give an explanation as to why.
 

GGW Laurie

Paleo Meister (means really, really old)
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I had no idea this was posted until I was told at 5 am.... I had mailed casinomeister to remove it. Now with all the replies I will answer this.
First of all, It is amazing how I see the Thank You's on here. I was just reading a post from Casinomiester explaining that Thank you's are certainly not to use when ganging up on someone....

A few weeks ago I asked to Join your group LaurieJim. All you had to do was to mail me back and say sorry, we are not excepting anyone new now.Instead you mail me, asking me to tell you about myself and said your group will take a vote to see if I am accepted to the group. So, I mailed you back and told you a little about myself. You mailed me back that you need more information about me and what I gave you was not enough and your group members needed more information for the vote. So I took a chance seeing how everyone seems to think you are a nice person in here, and gave you more information about me. Then a day later you have another member mail me back that basically I was not accepted.

This was hurtful to me and mean spirited in my opinion. If I was not accepted so let it be who cares, but the way you did this was cold and mean spirited. I have seen your posts and you would not have liked to be treated this way either.So excuse me for my husband for his post. But when he saw how this hurt me, it hurt him to.

I am sorry that you felt that way and as i explained, we checked out your profile, there wasnt nothing there, i asked about your hobbies and likes and dislikes, i saved the emails and will be glad to re forward them to you or Rambler if you wish, it was taken by vote and explained to you thru another member of good standing in this forum that it will be looked at again in the future, we have nothing to hide in our club, i or another memeber has never once asked you or anyone else personal info, never!!!!!
There is personal info in our club that we share between each other and its all based upon trust, so that is why we have a members vote, if one is uncomfortable with someone being in, then its final until we resolve it, i really am sorry........................laurie
 

lauram

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I feel like I am back in high school. And you think by making this post that would help with your votes to get in. Lj as she said never asked you anything personal. The vote within the past few months have been based on something else nothing to do with anyone personally.
 

BingoT

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I do have to say watch out for them split personaity type of people :lolup: & you do get them in everyplace you go.
They talk behind your back and sweet to you face to face.
I say if you can't say anything nice don't say it at all.
Tell it like it is if someone here Lies or has a personaity disorder we like to know more.
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lauram

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I do have to say watch out for them split personaity type of people :lolup: & you do get them in everyplace you go.
They talk behind your back and sweet to you face to face.
I say if you can't say anything nice don't say it at all.
Tell it like it is if someone here Lies or has a personaity disorder we like to know more.
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LOL bing I have a split personality and its showing now as i sharpen my knives up for halloween to carve my pumpkin. LOL.
 

oldtrvlagt

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Wait a minute.....there are "private groups" and you need the "secret" handshake to ge in? Where are we high school? Obviously I've never been invited or I would have known....I thought this was a casino forum...if one wants something else wouldn't it be a good idea to take it "off site"? All for one, one for all, we all try to watch each others backs with the casinos out there......however, you can't belong to my group? For the love of Pete....clj...remember this (you can't lose something you never had) and it probably wasn't worth having in the first place;)
 

just play

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I never knew these groups were so important. :what:

I like talking to EVERYONE here, I was invited to a group but didn't want to be "lumped in" to a certain group.

CLJ...you certainly don't need a group to have wonderful conversations through PMs/forum/emails.
 

slotheadlizard

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I had no idea this was posted until I was told at 5 am.... I had mailed casinomeister to remove it. Now with all the replies I will answer this.
First of all, It is amazing how I see the Thank You's on here. I was just reading a post from Casinomiester explaining that Thank you's are certainly not to use when ganging up on someone....

A few weeks ago I asked to Join your group LaurieJim. All you had to do was to mail me back and say sorry, we are not excepting anyone new now.Instead you mail me, asking me to tell you about myself and said your group will take a vote to see if I am accepted to the group. So, I mailed you back and told you a little about myself. You mailed me back that you need more information about me and what I gave you was not enough and your group members needed more information for the vote. So I took a chance seeing how everyone seems to think you are a nice person in here, and gave you more information about me. Then a day later you have another member mail me back that basically I was not accepted.

This was hurtful to me and mean spirited in my opinion. If I was not accepted so let it be who cares, but the way you did this was cold and mean spirited. I have seen your posts and you would not have liked to be treated this way either.So excuse me for my husband for his post. But when he saw how this hurt me, it hurt him to.

Clj, thanks for this post and explanation. I wasn't being funny or coy when I said what? I honestly did not know what your husband was getting at. It sucks that he felt compelled to write it. He did it out of love and concern for you.
FTR, I only thank people when I appreciate what they have said, or they answered a question or something like that. Not to gang up on anyone.

I know people will say, hey its just a stupid club or whatever but that has nothing to do with the fact that you were hurt by the decision not to be let in. Plus you feel slighted because someone else delivered the news.
Like some of the previous posters have said, its a great club with great people. There's nothing really private or secret about it though. No conspiracies to gang up on people, or to ban together to take over the forum topics. Really, its just a club.
Someone once called me a mob member in a post because of being associated with this club. I thought, what the heck? I was not hurt, but perplexed at what people actually thought we were about. It was crazy IMO.
So for the fact that you were hurt and felt Rambler was ganged up upon, I'm so sorry.
To Rambler, I'm sorry you had to post this, but I'm glad you did.
 

chayton

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Wait a minute.....there are "private groups" and you need the "secret" handshake to ge in?

:lolup: Yeah it seems weird to me too. I joined the music lovers group when the groups first started and I posted once and haven't been back since - it's not really why I joined casinomeister and usually I have just enough free time to keep up on what's going on in the main forum. I didn't even know you could make your own group.

That being said, I like Laurie and I'm (pretty) sure she's not up to anything nefarious. If you can't get into her group, then start your own.

I'm gonna start my own group and not let ANYONE in...it'll be just me talking to myself. Like at home. :D
 

Jasminebed

Game old gal
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Location
Ontario
CJ, our club is not that exclusive, nor all that special. Like most families, we don't always agree on everything either. We don't know you personally, and the club made a decision that we are not currently accepting new members.

Usually a member will suggest someone who is a friend of theirs for inclusion and it is voted upon, not a request from someone to join us.

This club is a social group, not a VIP group. We share a lot of personal information about our lives, our families and our health.

It's not like we don't like you, we just don't know you.

Also, no one in our group is a casino rep or (currently) an affiliate, so it's not like you get any special casino treatment by belonging.

If you'd like to send me a friendship request, I would accept it. I also answer any PMs I receive.

Sorry if your feelings were hurt, that was not our intention. That goes for you too Vegetagirl.

Jazzy
 

Rambler

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I am sorry that you felt that way and as i explained, we checked out your profile, there wasnt nothing there, i asked about your hobbies and likes and dislikes, i saved the emails and will be glad to re forward them to you or Rambler if you wish, it was taken by vote and explained to you thru another member of good standing in this forum that it will be looked at again in the future, we have nothing to hide in our club, i or another memeber has never once asked you or anyone else personal info, never!!!!!
There is personal info in our club that we share between each other and its all based upon trust, so that is why we have a members vote, if one is uncomfortable with someone being in, then its final until we resolve it, i really am sorry........................laurie


It was the method of rejection of having to share personal information and voting among strangers for acceptance that is bothersome and makes one ponder. This whole weird experience personally reminded me of author Shirley Jackson's novel about a perverse lottery of sorts.

The method in which you invited CLJ, asking probing questions of a personal nature, then having another member turn her down to the group was as childish as a Sorority/ Fraternity initiation.

CLJ even got the Meister involved to re-think if private groups should continue to be allowed, if this childish behavior to get in your "click" continues, so kudos for stirring the forum up; especially in light of the very pertinent fact that my wife and I are avid on-line gamblers for nine years and know the ins and outs of the casinos. I wouldn't let her join your group if you paid us now.

I just wanted the truth out that some in here speak out of both sides of their mouths and I feel most, like us, do not operate in that sort of lowbrow manner.

Good day madame!

P.S. A heartfelt Thank You for all that understood my point as I don't regularly post in here, just gamble for fun with our money; it is easier to side with groupies than to stand alone and expose what is going on with Private groups. We are such private people, none of you probably knew CLJ and I are married until now.

In my opinion, their should be criteria/ rules in the future on how a person is accepted or rejected by any given group or open them up to all members in good standing (Private Groups).
 

Jasminebed

Game old gal
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Just a small point Rambler...your wife asked to join us, we didn't invite her then decide not to admit her.

If you heard your neighbours were having a party, not a neighbourhood party, but a private house party, would you feel rejected if you knocked on the door and was told the party was by invitation only?

If you wish to socialize with other forum members, start your own club and invite those who you wish.

And my Canucks Corner group is open to all, feel free to join us there. We have a few honourary Canadians among our members.

Also, to the best of my recollection, Laurie didn't share much personal information with us, I think the group decision was largely made without any.
 

GGW Laurie

Paleo Meister (means really, really old)
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In the Beautiful South !!
It was the method of rejection of having to share personal information and voting among strangers for acceptance that is bothersome and makes one ponder. This whole weird experience personally reminded me of author Shirley Jackson's novel about a perverse lottery of sorts.

The method in which you invited CLJ, asking probing questions of a personal nature, then having another member turn her down to the group was as childish as a Sorority/ Fraternity initiation.

CLJ even got the Meister involved to re-think if private groups should continue to be allowed, if this childish behavior to get in your "click" continues, so kudos for stirring the forum up; especially in light of the very pertinent fact that my wife and I are avid on-line gamblers for nine years and know the ins and outs of the casinos. I wouldn't let her join your group if you paid us now.

I just wanted the truth out that some in here speak out of both sides of their mouths and I feel most, like us, do not operate in that sort of lowbrow manner.

Good day madame!

P.S. A heartfelt Thank You for all that understood my point as I don't regularly post in here, just gamble for fun with our money; it is easier to side with groupies than to stand alone and expose what is going on with Private groups. We are such private people, none of you probably knew CLJ and I are married until now.

In my opinion, their should be criteria/ rules in the future on how a person is accepted or rejected by any given group or open them up to all members in good standing (Private Groups).

Dear Rambler,

It was your wife who asked another member to join the club, when we looked at her profile page at the time all it said was private, i asked her likes and dislikes and hobbies, it wasnt like i was asking for her life history and info, look we dont hurt anyone, most of us are everyday regular posters on the forum.I even commented to your wife how i enjoyed her posts.

I take offense to some of the coments you made off hand about me as untruths, i try to treat everyone with respect at all times and i have never dis respected you nor your wife. If it made you feel better to say those things, well thats fine, it didnt bother me at all as sometimes we say things when we are upset and thats the way im treating this un needed thread..........laurie:)
 

jas2587

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Location
FL
I had no idea this was posted until I was told at 5 am.... I had mailed casinomeister to remove it. Now with all the replies I will answer this.
First of all, It is amazing how I see the Thank You's on here. I was just reading a post from Casinomiester explaining that Thank you's are certainly not to use when ganging up on someone....

A few weeks ago I asked to Join your group LaurieJim. All you had to do was to mail me back and say sorry, we are not excepting anyone new now.Instead you mail me, asking me to tell you about myself and said your group will take a vote to see if I am accepted to the group. So, I mailed you back and told you a little about myself. You mailed me back that you need more information about me and what I gave you was not enough and your group members needed more information for the vote. So I took a chance seeing how everyone seems to think you are a nice person in here, and gave you more information about me. Then a day later you have another member mail me back that basically I was not accepted.

This was hurtful to me and mean spirited in my opinion. If I was not accepted so let it be who cares, but the way you did this was cold and mean spirited. I have seen your posts and you would not have liked to be treated this way either.So excuse my husband for his post. But when he saw how this hurt me, it hurt him to.

1st off you asked ChuChu to join the group not LJ second LJ did ask you about your Hobbies an your dislikes we took a vote we didnt want any more members so ChuChu sent you the email saying sorry not at this time
what was so personal that you was asked?
also she had the member that you asked to join the group reply that no was not a good time if you are going to post please post facts

Thanks Cindy:)
 
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silcnlayc

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clj...remember this (you can't lose something you never had) and it probably wasn't worth having in the first place
I agree.

I also remember that another member (and many just "loved" her), that was banned who belonged to this group. Nothing against groups, cliques, or private parties...it's just that if you feel you must have a group vote for anyone to join, you might want to rethink that since some of the members of any so called group just might not be who they claim to be as the one that got banned from THIS site fooled many and I believe left egg on their faces.

I belong to one group and I think it was Rob who invited me (thanks!)...I would be a lousy "secret" friend because I feel if it needs to be kept secret, then it is up to NO GOOD regardless of who is in it, but Robs is open to all, and I accepted.

This is just my opinion. I do not mean offense to anyone in any group...but when one needs a "secret" hand shake as another pointed out..I would run fast and far just because of the secrecy they demand to be kept which has never boded well in real life or in personal lives and it really does not bode well for ONLINE lives...again , JMO.

I do want to say, is that I feel this forum is one of the best there is...in people's opinions which I always respect, sometimes disagree with but still respect it...I also believe, there should be no need for "secret" clubs..since we are all here for the same thing, supporting and being there for each other in any way we can, even in argumental ways (nicely though) which helps us grow and learn.

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Jasminebed

Game old gal
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Location
Ontario
I do have to say watch out for them split personaity type of people :lolup: & you do get them in everyplace you go.
They talk behind your back and sweet to you face to face.
I say if you can't say anything nice don't say it at all.
Tell it like it is if someone here Lies or has a personaity disorder we like to know more.
pp_backstabbing2.jpg

Well, I'm pretty candid about who I am. While my mental illness is not a personality disorder, I don't talk about it in the open forum usually.

You really want to know more about me? Ask me, I'll either tell you or tell you to mind your own business. Either way, you will get a response.
 

jas2587

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Joined
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Location
FL
when you join a club like the VFW, Moose Lodge, PTA, Bridge Clubs, private Poker games I am sure that they ask a few things about you an want answers before you can join maybe not the PTA
Heck even nursery schools you have to divulge personal imformation
Private schools also an I am sure not all that APPLY are accepted

Rambler you keep bringing up in your post as to how much money yall spend what does that have to do with it an it doesnt say how much we deposit that is a private matter
""""We spend about 4 to 6 K a month in Rival and Microgamming Casinos per month; we assume there is some sort of platinum club for this, lol, unless in Hong Kong."""""" I am sure the Casino has a club you can join the amount of money spent has nothing to do with a club here

This is Bryans House an we abide by his rules when you post please post facts as some of your post tell a different story on your wife trying to join the club

players try out for football basketball baseball cheer leaders an get turned down every day

you apply for a credit card (((personal info galore)) an get turned down do you write them about being rejected ask them to pull the online process to apply for credit?

as in your opening post you say said member worked for a casino which one please we are all waiting on that one?
Neuter the meister what do you mean by this?


Good Luck

Cindy
 
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