screwed up and need help

[rowmare]

damnit, i can't stop defending myself. Here I go again, dominating the forum (sorry to the rest of you for that!) But, to set the record straight, I did not want to get a rise out of anyone. That was not my goal at all!! That's another twist of yours.
Your message to me is very offensive, Linda.
Do I need to appologize for feeling offended at being called a moron?
Shall I appologize for objecting to the threats of violence, and the approval of those threats?
Shall I appologize for getting into this in the first place by saying "go to your rooms and don't come out till you can play nice.?
Now I find myself on the defensive.
I think it's all very unreasonable.
Here's another little quote, paraphrased, since I can't remember verbatim:
"It's better to keep your mouth shut and let people think you're an idiot, than to open it and remove all doubt."
lol
I should probably keep that one in mind for myself next time I try to reason with angry people.

 

[linda7]

Rowmare: Why do I get the feeling that you are "Integrity". Maybe because you are throwing a temper tantrum very similar to his. I do not know who Privated you with an apology but it was not me. I am sorry for nothing, other than your daughter being sick, and as a mother myself, I know how hard it is to see your child ill. On the flip side, for someone with a sick kid, you seem to be able to respond at the drop of a hat.
When my kids are sick, I am never online. Having said that...dont try and bullshit by saying you dont know who said the word [color=ff0000]•[/color][color=ff0000]•[/color][color=ff0000]•[/color][color=ff0000]•[/color] first. You know who did ! Rowmare, I am done with you too. I am glad you started out with nothing, and to be brutally honest, you now are nothing.

Post as you wish...I will not respond to you EVER.

Linda

(Message edited by admin on October 27, 2003)

 

[jinnia]

rowmare,

It seems everyone else has backed off from this and hopefully to let it rest now. but you seem as if you want it to continue.

You have insulted Linda and her husband now, so lay it to rest before it takes off again!!

To state your opinion, views and/or ideas is one thing, but to carry on and on after it's already been said is just riding that high horse and can't or don't want to get off.

So back off from Linda and her husband now. Enough is enough, mother of 4 !!

 

[gramsey]

rowmare , I said I was sorry for calling you a moron... but you continue to find fault in every line of every posting so I give up .. It seeems you are having problems so tend to your business and forget you ever spoke to me. hasta la vista
gramsey

 

[rowmare]

This is very one sided.
Have you read what Linda is saying.
Now I'm a bad mother!
Please read up and see If I have called her any names at all, or attacked her personally.
I appologize, Gramsey, for taking issue with your appology. I didn't know it was going to be the only decent thing y'all would have to say to me.

I am absolutely crushed by the attackes.
I was really trying to help someone else who was being called names, and now I'm in the hot seat.

I am not having a temper tantrum, Linda
I wrote nothing at all about someone "privating" me with an appology. This shows that Linda is not reading my posts with a clear mind - she's too angry to be reasonable, and it seems you're all just jumping on her bandwagong because you know her. Mob mentality.
You are dealing with a person here, with feelings. I wish you'd just be nice.

I wonder how you all would feel if you were in my shoes, and everyone was blaming you, even though it's obvious that Linda is saying some pretty nasty stuff to me!

 

[linda7]

Well, Linda, where I come from that is known as an insincere appology. An excuse (private message) followed by an appology is not an appology. It is meant only to appease your own self, so you can say you did the right thing, even when you didn't.

THIS IS WHAT YOU POSTED AT THE TOP OF THIS PAGE...
PERHAPS, YOU CAUGHT YOUR DAUGHTERS FEVER DEAR, OR MAYBE YOU ARE JUST TWISTED. EITHER WAY, I DONT GIVE A DAMN. AND LETS BE CLEAR ON ONE THING, THE WAY IT READS IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE SAYING I PRIVATED A MESSAGE TO YOU. DONT FLATTER YOURSELF, I WOULD NOT WASTE MY TIME.

NOW, ONCE AGAIN POST AWAY...YOU ARE REALLY A SICKIE. BYE BYE GEEK.

 

[rowmare]

*sigh*
the private message I was refering to was her telling me that her message to you was private.
I can see how you may missinterpret that, as I wasn't very clear.

 

[Casinomeister]

Sheesh! I go out for an evening and wake up to this.

Posters in this forum need to read this:

https://www.casinomeister.com/forums/help/forum-rules/

Specifically this:
No abusive postings! If you get pissed at another forum member, either take it outside or count to ten and mellow out. Abusive behavior will not be tolerated and your account may be suspended. Please refrain from potty mouth language.
******

As many of you know, or ought to know, this website is my "work" and I don't "work" on weekends. I sometimes check what's going on in the forum during the weekend, but don't count on it. Family and weekend activities have priority.

Having said that, I put trust in forum members to behave according to common social standards, and like I said, if you have a beef with someone, take it outside. The swearing and insulting language used here is embarrassing. This is not the place for this.

I banned Integrity's account right before I was leaving out the door last night as a reaction to his use of the "c" word in an email to Linda, and to his unexplained changing of his email address. I was going to check into this this morning to see what was up. Apparently things got out of hand, way out of hand.

I don't believe anyone should be banned from this forum. So far, I have only banned about five accounts in the past 5 years of running this board. I'll be lifting Integrity's today conditionally.

I put trust in everyone here to abide by the posting terms and conditions.

Now behave. Thread closed.

 

[GaryWatson]

Haha classic, I forgot what I was looking for in the serps now lol

 

[Casinomeister]

Yeah, and i forgot to close the thread like I said I would. This is nearly four years old. Wow!