babs7262, thank you for a very thoughtful post.
You are certainly right, in more than one aspects. If a person is truly desperate/suicidal, it must be more than just losing money or being addicted to gambling. It is more about feeling that life in general is meaningless, yourself is totally worthless, and isolation is like complete...
My personal problem is that I am what one poster called 'an addictive personality'. Another valid point may be that I guess I started gambling for all the wrong reasons - i.e. not to gain few bucks, and not for entertainment either, but to fill up the void I had been hurting from... some very private drama
Started this way, it could lead to no good, only to cause more pain and kick-start self-destruction behaviour... unless I try and re-evaluate my attitude to gambling and re-adjust my gambling-related financial arrangements. Funny, but I still am not ready to quit
P.S. I am out of any immediate danger, that's for sure. Thanks go to all posters who participated in this thread, to all members who sent me messages with advice, own stories and showed sympathy, to all who voted (I am not alone, sic!). Special thanks to Enzo who spent over an hour in chat with me and making me feel no longer isolated. Thanks to EURO-2008 and short-lived but still exciting miracle presented by a Russian team...
P.P.S. And finally, the last thing which made me stop and think, happened just yesterday when I took my son to the beach. I saw a foreign-looking couple there, obviously tourists, in swimsuits, looking relaxed and content. They were about 50-something, and - how to say it without sounding pathetic? - the lady had no arms. For God's sake... one look at her, and I felt SO ashamed of being SO selfish and low, demanding much from life, and not apprreciating what I have already got...
...I do not think I need to elaborate on this...
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