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Discussion in 'The Attic' started by petro, May 29, 2017.

    May 29, 2017
  1. petro

    petro Dormant account, per user request PABnoaccred2 PABaccred

    Occupation:
    N/A
    Location:
    Narnia
    Hi,

    Not too long ago, I wrote a 1-2 paragraph letter to a female that I knew several years ago.
    She made some attempts at forming a relationship with me; but at the time I was not interested.
    Since then I have become a more practical minded person and I realised I'm not going to do much better and I decided to contact her. I wrote her a letter asking; Are you still available and interested?

    There was a response a few weeks after that. I was phoned up by a police Sergeant and threatened.
    The Sergeant said the woman in question had come into the station very upset waving the letter and saying that she doesn't know who I am. (It's not true unless she had amnesia; we knew each other on and off for about a decade.)
    I explained this to the Sergeant; I had photos of us together, witnesses, and so on. But the Sergeant said it's besides the point. He said the point is; she doesn't want to see me and if I try and contact her again there will be some legal trouble. (If she did not respond to that letter, I would automatically assume that she wasn't interested and I would not have contacted her again.)

    If she wants to pretend that she never knew me, that's fine; but what has that got to do with the police?
    I'm wondering if I should contact a lawyer about the Sergeant's actions. I think his actions were inappropriate and somewhat threatening.

    What do you guys think?
     
  2. May 29, 2017
  3. orion

    orion Experienced Member PABnonaccred

    Occupation:
    wine. We make it.
    Location:
    deep south of Eu
    is she from Italy maybe ?

    :D
     
  4. May 29, 2017
  5. miso

    miso Meister Member MM

    Occupation:
    accountant
    Location:
    Ireland
    So you never actually saw the "sergeant"? What if she's got a new man and he opened the letter and rang just to scare you off?
     
  6. May 29, 2017
  7. Jono777

    Jono777 Meister Member CAG mm4 mm1

    Occupation:
    Self- Employeed
    Location:
    Wolverhampton
    Sadly I feel that the "Good Guy" or The guy who "Does no wrong" will not stand a chance in this day and age :(

    Your thread title says it perfectly!

    Won't go in too deep but they ragged my pensioner fathers wardrobe empty, strewn clothes everywhere after proof he'd be in our local town AFTER HE'D ALREADY ADMITTED BEING THERE :confused:

    As much as It may frustrates you, I'd just let sleeping dogs lie.
     
  8. May 29, 2017
  9. incrediblestuff

    incrediblestuff SearchingForTheHolyGrail! CAG webmeister

    Occupation:
    Currently: Self employed, Previously: Manager
    Location:
    Mostly the Netherlands
    My guess would be the sergeant is her current boyfriend :p
    That would explain a lot!

    Edit: no replies yet when i started typing, miiisooo's post was pretty much the same:)
     
  10. May 29, 2017
  11. syrus2

    syrus2 Banned User - repetitive trollish behavior

    Occupation:
    truk driver
    Location:
    Netherlands

    If the woman in question has handed a officially registered complaint to the police.
    And the police had a legal edict to take action.

    Then , I'm afraid your lawyer can't win. that would be waste of your money.

    You should know , Even without a legal warn, Police is authorized to give the warning.

    NOTE :

    FTR , your lawyer can make a complaint regarding approach and the way the police has behaved himself towards you.
     
  12. May 29, 2017
  13. petro

    petro Dormant account, per user request PABnoaccred2 PABaccred

    Occupation:
    N/A
    Location:
    Narnia
    I confirmed that it actually was a sergeant.

    For her own privacy and protection I'd rather not talk about her motives.
    I'm just wondering if I should do anything about the Sergeant.
     
  14. May 29, 2017
  15. dionysus

    dionysus can turn wine into water CAG MM

    Occupation:
    n/a
    Location:
    I'm a Canucklehead
    Why bother? Let sleeping dogs lie and move on to a brighter day. :thumbsup:
     
  16. May 29, 2017
  17. paul7388

    paul7388 Meister Member MM

    Occupation:
    not a lot
    Location:
    glasgow scotland
    Are you sure it was the lady you wanted to receive the letter that actually got it. And after a few years she might not have actually realised it was from you and maybe thought it was from some nutter.

    Besides the main thing from what you wrote was the bit where you said " I realised I'm not going to do much better " so i am sure the lady will be glad she never accepted your offer as who wants to be with someone that only wants you because you are best available option and will settle for you now since nothing better is coming along.
     
  18. May 29, 2017
  19. dunover

    dunover Unofficial T&C's Editor Staff Member CAG PABnononaccred PABnonaccred PABinit mm3 webmeister

    Occupation:
    International Money Launderer
    Location:
    the bus shelter, opposite GCHQ Benhall
    I know this is serious but I almost pissed myself seeing that line. Best laugh I had since this losing run began..........:D:D:D

    It reminds me of when 21 or so me and my mates would go clubbing and each pick a not-so-hot but do-able girl, chat nicely and buy her one drink and move off, the idea being if we didn't pull anything better we could come back to them later nearer closing time, sort of 'insurance'. :eek2:

    Still grinning now...:)

    P.S. PLEASE tell me you never put that line in the letter FFS? It may explain the involvement of the constabulary...
     
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  21. goatwack

    goatwack Denny, two is great, but three is a crowd CAG

    Occupation:
    Stuntman
    Location:
    Londonia
    Women eh? :eek: Can't live with 'em, can't..... write them letters after lengthy absence without them shopping you to the police for harassment.

    And I'd just finished penning my letter to that bird I used to work with. Touch wood she'll be up for a reconcilliation! I've enclosed a picture of Orlando Bloom just to get her to accept.

    Worth a shot innit. Worst case scenario is a wasted postage stamp and a night in jail :cool:
     
  22. May 29, 2017
  23. petro

    petro Dormant account, per user request PABnoaccred2 PABaccred

    Occupation:
    N/A
    Location:
    Narnia
    Yes, I'm sure it was her.
    She would remember unless she had amnesia and forgot a large chunk of her life.

    That's not what I meant when I said "I realised I'm not going to do much better."
    It's very complicated and personal to explain.
     
  24. May 29, 2017
  25. greylady

    greylady The more I learn, the less I know

    Occupation:
    Little Minx :-)
    Location:
    Scotland
    Sheeesh as a woman and if someone turned me down, I sure as hell wouldn't give him a second chance if he came back later with a change of mind, wouldn't matter what the circumstance or explanation was! If I wasn't good enough for him then, he sure wouldn't be good enough for me now

    Mind you I did get a laugh, the cheek of it
     
  26. May 29, 2017
  27. Mouche12

    Mouche12 Kitty Lover PABnononaccred PABnonaccred PABnoaccred

    Occupation:
    Translator and facilities manager
    Location:
    Amsterdam
    Sorry, but why is it an offence to write a letter to someone with whom you've been together a few years ago??

    Actually, my current Danish hubby contacted me years ago (by email), after we had to break up some 10 (!) years prior to that - we got together again and things are going quite well here in Amsterdam. If I would not have been interested, I'd simply say no, or just not respond. This sounds like quite the hysterical woman, running to the police and all, unless something else is going on - the sergeant is her boyfriend, she's got mental issues, or....?:what:

    Again, how would this fall under stalking? I just don't see it - and you've got proof that you had been together once.
     
  28. May 29, 2017
  29. fourwood

    fourwood Newbie member PABnonaccred

    Occupation:
    none
    Location:
    UK
    lost me at "wrote a letter"...
     
  30. May 29, 2017
  31. dionysus

    dionysus can turn wine into water CAG MM

    Occupation:
    n/a
    Location:
    I'm a Canucklehead
    :lolup:
     

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