5 ways to defend your online reputation

LaurieJim

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True or false, the information people find about you on the Web can have a big impact on your life. Here are five techniques to make sure that what people read about you is good (or at least true).

It's not what other people think of you that matters. It's what they can find out about you on the Web that will affect your ability to get a job or promotion, rent an apartment, buy a house, be accepted into the school of your choice, or find the love of your life.
Increasingly, your personal reputation is at the mercy of search engines, blogs and social networks, none of which themselves has a sterling reputation for accuracy.
Identity theft, libel, defamation, mistaken identity, and youthful indiscretions captured foreverthese are just a few of the things that can come back to bite you.
Fortunately there are ways to fight backfive ways, in fact. And it all starts with discovering the depth and breadth of your personal Net footprint.

1. Google yourself
It's not enough to have the respect and admiration of your family and your peers; you need Google juice as well. Because if someone Googles your name and finds nasty things written about you, your credibility could be destroyed in an instant. The postings could be the rantings of a disgruntled former employee or an angry ex-spouse, or of someone posing as you, or even someone with the same namein any case, you're toast.
"Google is no longer just a search engine; it's a reputation engine," says Chris Dellarocas, a professor at the University of Maryland who studies online reputations. The first step in taming this beast is to find out what's out there by Googling all variants of your name, your phone number and your address.
If you've put stuff on your own sites that you don't want Google to find, you can ask the search engine to delete it from its results. If someone else posted this material, though, Google won't remove it. You'll have to ask the site owner to take it downor hire someone to do it for you (see item #5).
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Even the mighty Google can't catch everything. For example, many of Facebook's 60 million profiles are inaccessible to search engines. So even if you haven't created a page on Facebook, MySpace, or one of the gazillion other social networks, someone else might have set up a spoof page to make you look bad.
Start by looking at so-called "people search" engines. Sites like Pipl, Spock, Wink and ZoomInfo scrape information from other Web sites (like social networks) and slap it together into personal profiles. It's not uncommon for such sites to mix information about different people with the same name and present them as a single person. That's not so good if you've got the same name as, say, a porn star or a disgraced former Congressman.
Spock goes a step beyond; its bot software selectively pulls individual words from your sites and adds them as "tags" to your profile. Taken out of context, some tags can be extremely damagingas when Spock tagged prominent political blogger John Aravosis as a "pedophile" because he'd written about Congressman Mark Foley. In many cases you can contact the sites and have information removed or corrected (to find out how, locate the site's privacy policy or contacts page). Spock will e-mail you if your profile has been changed, but only if you register with the site.
There are also hundreds of online address books that contain information on you, some of which surely won't be accurate. For $5 a month, Reputation Defender offers a service called MyPrivacy that locates your listings in some of the major Internet white pages and lets you remove your data. At press time, though, the servicea betawas still buggy and incomplete. (See item #5 for another Reputation Defender service.)
And don't forget Wikipedia. You may have a false or defamatory entry in the world's most popular online encyclopedia and never know it. In the most infamous case, retired journalist John Siegenthaler publicly outed the encyclopedia for a false entry that implied he played a role in the Kennedy assassinations. If you've got a Wiki page and want to keep it, you'll need to keep an eye out for erroneous edits.
3. Opt out early and often
By reducing the amount of junk mail you receive, you make yourself a smaller target for identity thieves and others who can mess with your reputation. (One of identity thieves' favorite tricks is to sign up for a change of address in your name, so they can re-route pre-approved credit card offers to your "new address.")
Though there's almost no way of getting your junk quotient down to zero, taking your name off marketing lists will nuke 50 to 75 percent of it. The easiest way? Sign up for ProQuo. This free service can help delete your name from more than a dozen marketing listsincluding those operated by the Direct Marketing Association and massive data brokers like ChoicePoint and Acxiom.
In some cases ProQuo will remove your name for you; in other cases it directs you to the opt-out page for an organization's Web site or gives you sample letters that you must print out, sign and mail. You can also use ProQuo to tell Equifax, Experian and TransUnion to stop selling your information to companies that send you pre-approved credit card offers, and to thwart telemarketers by adding your name to the FTC's Do Not Call list. ProQuo is dead simple to use, and there are no strings attached.4. Do your own background checkThere is a treasure-trove of information about you freely available to anyone who knows how to look for it. Do you own property? Are you licensed to carry a concealed weapon? Have you ever been late with your tax payments? Arrested? Divorced? In most states, that information is in the public record, and much of it is available online for a fee. When an employer does a background check on you, this is the kind of stuff that turns upso at the very least you want to make sure the information is accurate. Fortunately, you can request a free public records report from ChoicePoint. (You'll have to print out a form and mail it along with copies of your driver's license and proof of address.)
While you're at it, order your free annual report from the big three credit bureaus. This information shows up when you try to open a new credit account, buy a cell phone, rent an apartment or apply for a job, among other things. Unfortunately, credit reports are notoriously inaccurate. A 2004 study by the U.S. Public Interest Research Group found that one in four reports contains an error serious enough to deny you credit or employment. So you'll want to review and correct them as needed.
Just be careful whom you order your report from. The vast majority of sites that advertise "free credit reports" try to trick you into signing up for credit monitoring services at $10 to $15 a month. The right place to go is AnnualCreditReport.comor, better yet, call 877-322-8228 to order it by phone.
5. Defend your reputation
When it comes to online reputations, people are usually their own worst enemies. Those drunken spring break photos may have been a hoot in college, but they're not so funny when you're prepping for the big job interview. (And if you think employers won't find it, think again: 77 percent of recruiters use search engines to screen prospective job candidates, according to a survey by ExecuNet.) You can delete your Flickr account or your MySpace page, but once this stuff is on the Web, you have no control over what happens to it. If you find nasty stuff floating around that's not under your control, you may have to employ the nuclear option and hire someone to take care of it for you.
Some services, like DefendMyName, can cost $1,000 a month; others are bit more reasonable. For $10 a month, Reputation Defender's MyReputation service will scour the Net to find out what people are saying about you. If the service uncovers anything you can't abide, you can pay Reputation Defender $30 to have it removed. Reputation Defender starts by sending a letter politely asking the site to remove it. If the site refuses, the requests become increasingly less polite. But sometimes this process backfires. When Reputation Defender tried to erase news of one client's arrest from Consumerist.com in January 2007, it spurred a spitting match in the blogosphere that only made matters worse.
And if the service can't get the bad stuff taken down, it will try to bury it by posting positive items about you and making sure the good stuff shows up higher in Google searches (though that service costs extra). Overall, MyReputation has had good success in removing items from video and photo sharing sites, social networks and online forums, but only moderate success with blogs, says co-founder Owen Tripp.
"Most clients never ask us to remove anything, they just use us as a professional monitoring service for their good names," he says in an e-mail. "They think of our services as the 'new credit report.'"
 
how do you guys google yourself? my name is shared by hundreds of other people. even my middle initial. i google my name and find it easy enough. all of it is sports related. i also share the same name with another pro athlete. he was a baseball player so all of his stuff shows up. there is also a minor league hockey player with the same name so all of his stats show up. the first dozen pages are all the 3 of us. then there are important people who have the name. a few doctors, some councilmen, etc... my dad shares my name. if someone were to google him this is the stuff they would get. how would someone know it's you? i'm sure im' not the only one who has a common name.
 
If you have a common name, they would probably skip that and start Googling your email address(es). Many people join forums or websites where email addresses are listed. Also, many people sign up at forums or blogs with user names that are used within their email address. :D

Hope I didn't reveal any trade secrets :p
 
Im becoming a pretty good googler 1819. If you have a common name and you know a few things about you that is made public, put your name along with something else ie...john M smith, 1998 hockey, injury

Or you can use a birthdate because birth records are public. THat is how I found Nit-----xer to confront him when he got kicked off of here. LOL..he said "how did you find my email addy, in shock" Easy, the idiot uses ni---er for ALL of his forums....his blackberry one, his car building forum etc... then what I did was join the forum with a name he wouldnt know, I didnt make posts but I used the forum to look up fellow members and got his email addy and unjoined. Then he called me, I googled his phone number(paid $3), got his address and when I said "do you live at blahblahblah?....I never heard from him again LOL. I wanted him to know that he is not as smart as he thought and he WILL get caught with all of this fraud he commits.

That is why I live the way I do now. During my "bad" years people didnt have myspace etc....I got lucky! Ive be doing things the right way for a long time now and its paying off because I can not be found anywhere on google with the exception of some of my forum posts that are public
 
After 21 years in the construction biz with some "assclown" sub-contractors (those that expect something for nothing and then pull guns) as well as crazy homeowners and tenants, not much I have not seen including the killing of several local builders.....I just stood my ground, mostly wisely and to date all is well so I do not worry a lot about things I can not control with the exception of monitoring my credit reports quarterly (never found a mistake yet) and due diligence as well as background checks where needed on certain individuals/firms.....you can pretty much sleuth anything you really want to know if ever necessary and willing to go to the expense to do so...that said good posts LJ and CM as it never hurts to be cautious.....Laurie, did you know John Siegenthaler,Sr (mentioned in your post) for many years was the publisher and owner (I think) of the Nashville paper until sold to Gannett. His son, John Jr. was the anchor of NBC News behind Brian Williams after the retirement of Tom Brokaw after John Jr. left local WSMV for MSNBC, the extended Siegenthaler family has done marketing and public relations work for my extended family for years.(Check Google;)). The world is just too damn small,LOL:D
 
Gosh
Im more popular on google than I thought LOL...I have like 2000 items! Its all like I said, forum posts I made on here, epinions.co, photosig,freelegaladvice,trip planner . Just regular stuff
 
Well I've goggled myself every which way of Sunday and I can't find anything relating to me...that is the real me..:D,,,so I guess I have been able to cloak myself purdy damn good since my first internet trip back in 1993...:eek2:

Man that was a long time ago it seems !!!

I can find several things relating to my twin (psycho) brother RobWin though...:cool:
 
15 years ago (when I was just 9 years old!) I stayed with a family in New York as part of an exchange program. I have not had contact with them for the last 13 years until last week when I decided to google their names. I couldn't believe it when the very first result was the daughters facebook profile, amazing!

Just remember to put " before and after your full name to find an exact match.
 

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