But Harry that's what we mean by the addict has to take responsibility for their actions.
If they are in that much a mess 6 weeks is more than enough time to make sure they can no longer use the site. If they cant take necessary actions to help themselves within 6 weeks then sorry ive no sympathy. That shows they are not ready to help themselves and SEs will only paper over the cracks and they will gamble somewhere.
Also this thread was also about how 32RED had took away TAB button and now you had to wait maybe hours before taking a break and especially at easter weekend with longer pending it was so irresponsible.
Sorry anyone that really needed to TAB would have read all the terms to find out how. Again if they couldn't be bothered phoning then that's their fault. Maybe no instant button but a short phone calls not that much hassle. If they cant do it then sorry that's their fault.
But like I said TAB is only minutes away for anyone that really needs it. So I really think these near 40 pages are over the top. Yes hey shouldn't have removed the button from webpage but theres still a near instant solution. It again comes down to gamblers taking responsibility for their own actions.
Paul i can only recommend to you as well to visit a GA meeting to hear how the road down to hell is littered with moments where help at the right time would have avoided the ultimate disaster.
I should maybe reveal at this moment in time that i did once a few years voluntary work for an organization that offered Addiction Support, be it drugs, alcohol, gambling or any other form of addiction. I was assigned to the Gambling section and have first hand experienced how bad it can become, hence my remark in an earlier post that i have seen the ugly, the bad and the really ugly bad. Probably prevented me from becoming a "problem gambler" myself.
One example:
- Husband is heavily addicted and regularly blows the paycheck (gamblers always find ways to get the money into their hands on pay day)
- Wive has 2 jobs to keep the family somehow afloat and the 2 kids fed, dressed and in school
- Obviously there will be plenty of arguments between the two
- At some point the husband has a bright moment (maybe at the point where the bank sends them the eviction order as the mortgage was not paid in 6 months) and agrees to SE at all casinos he has registered with and also for the wife to stand next to him to see him doing it.
- He starts, casino 1, casino 2, casino 3 etc etc - all done online and instantly the moment he is pressing that button
- Arrives at 32RED/EM: "oh bummer, can't do it online", sees the phone number and calls up.
- SE is not offered then and there on the phone and now he relies on the CS Agent to recommend him a TAB as a temporary measure, to make sure the account is blocked until he returns the form
- Let's say the CS agent does that and TAB's the account for 48hrs, which should be sufficient to sign and return the SE form
- Husband also hands over bank cards to the wife and at the bank he agrees that the wife will have the control over the joint account.
- They also walk into every B+M shop in the area and SE him, making sure he can't gamble any further at the bookies either
- Form from 32RED/EM arrives at some point via email, by this time the wife has left the PC and does housework
- Later she asks him whether he has returned the form, he says yes but hasn't.
- 48hrs later the 32RED/EM account is activated again as the TAB has expired
- Another day later is pay day and he gets his hands somehow on the pay check and blows it again at the only account which is still open - 32RED/EM
- Family loses the house and has to move out
- Now they are in real trouble as it will cost a hell lot of money to find a rental place, pay for the fees to the bank for selling the house etc etc.
You think this has not happened. I can assure you it has 1000's of times, be it as above or similar. I heard and seen plenty of cases in 6 years I did my voluntary work for that organization.
Now you will say: Oh he can open another account with a different casino. Sure he could, but with no bank cards and the 32RED/EM account readily available, we all know where he will go first. Would 32RED/EM allow instant SE it would take longer to register at a new place, get somehow cash into the casino account, maybe just enough time until the wife comes home from work to stop him from blowing that last cash which proves then to be the final nail in the coffin.
I have also dealt with plenty casino operators, well at that time it was more B&M than online operators but NOT A SINGLE ONE did really care a "iota" whether a player would blow the last penny from his pocket. Only rising or rather exploding numbers of problem gamblers called the governments on the plan to introduce regulation in regards to RG. 14 YEARS it has taken to finally have one GC putting a paragraph in place that the SE has to be offered by "automated process via remote communication" putting the first time ever the PLAYER IN DIRECT CONTROL...14 years Paul. Can you imagine how much casino operators resisted that introduction??? Technically it could have been done 14 years ago, no problem.
The soon it was in place, casino operators looked for loopholes to circumvent it and as it seems 32RED has found that loophole as otherwise they would not have removed the online self-set SE button to avoid being in breach of the UKGC regulation.
When I saw the first time the online TAB/SE features i nearly jumped for joy, finally seeing that the player can be 100% in control of his casino account. In my view an important part to prevent a borderline case even becoming a "problem gambler". Understandably, i was so totally disappointed to see 32RED removing it again.
Well, all our discussions here will be all hot air to them, nothing more, nothing less. However, i look forward to 2017 when the UKGC will introduce the central RG database where 1 SE will exclude you from every online casino. I sincerely hope it will get done as that is, with the ever growing number of online casinos, the only real option to help a problem gambler.